An Ordinary Life for a Girl Born in the Eighties

It's very good-looking. People who have never been angry can read it. I have read dozens of chapters so far. The person who feels the most distressed is the mother. She has a lot of work to do. She wants to take care of her eldest daughter Congcong but no one is willing to cooperate with her. Grandma and father unconditionally dote on their eldest daughter. No matter good or bad, the eldest daughter is also a naughty child. I don't deny that my eldest daughter is cute and good sometimes, but most of the things she does are really irritating. She always makes trouble and makes a mess. Mom can't do anything about it, but when she does, dad comes to interfere. I can't stand it anymore. Let's call it a day [smile]

She's good-looking, and I really like Congcong's character. Maybe in a loving family, children can be so confident and generous. It's good to be smart, and Mingming is also very good. This is what a natural baby girl looks like, rather than being submissive and being disciplined by society and family.

An incredible family, an overly liberal father, a pair of "smart" daughters, and a Chinese-style grateful mother. The eldest daughter Congcong had always enjoyed the treatment of an only child before her younger sister Mingming was born. She asked people when she wanted and asked for what she wanted. She was not domesticated by worldly rules. Her father Xu Xinan was even more happy to see this happen. Not only did he not suppress Congcong, but he also encouraged Congcong to be himself. It is rare to see such a father even now, let alone the 1980s. Congcong is unhappy and obviously unreasonable. Although it is a sister narrative, the center of this article is actually Congcong. Seeing the world from Congcong's perspective is full of fun. This is a period novel that never feels boring. Let's see how this pair of smart sisters made their way in the world in the 1980s!

Very good article, very vivid life, the writing style is praiseworthy [shy] Every character here is very vivid, and everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Xu Congcong is a very naughty child, very independent. She has been pampered by her father and grandma since she was a child. She will be praised for everything she does [laughing] There is actually a contrast in educating children. Mom and dad. Dad wants her to be happy and worry-free. Mom hopes she can do everything by herself. In fact, I really hate my grandma. Her education is very selfish. How unimaginable it is for an eight-year-old child to support herself and her mother. She told her child that she could only survive on her own, so she refused help from others. This kind of education made her mother extremely confident, but it was also hard work and hurt her body. She herself grew up wealthy... But there was no way to blame her. After all, she gave birth to the child and grew up with her. But she shouldn't try to interfere with Xu Congcong and Xu Mingming's education, because they have a father and a mother, and I can't bear to shame their father. After all, they have paid for it, and they have tacitly agreed that my wife will support her in her old age. She just wants her eldest son-in-law to help her family and compliment her! ! ! Cut! Dad and grandma dote on their children too much. This kind of education is actually a bit bad, but who doesn't want to have parents who are always on their side? Dad was also pampered by grandma when he grew up, so he often shied away from farm work. He would also advise his mother to do what she can. Because he loves his children, he works hard and makes money. He tries to give the best to his two babies (very envious) Mom, she is very strong-willed, stubborn and bad-tempered, but this is not her fault. Her native family told her that she can only rely on herself. Although she is still the same mother now, she also loves her children, listens to persuasion, and is willing to make progress. As a family, if we work together, we will always have a better life🫰🏻 Xu Mingming, sister, pff~ The king of destruction, a little unlucky, can't wear new clothes, hehe ૮(˶ᵔᵕᵔ˶)ა is also my sister's main force. As the author's introduction says, "Neither Xu Congcong nor Xu Mingming is a perfect child" "No one is a perfect person" This is life

I saw the latest one at once. The author's narrative skills are very good. The writing style is very smooth and smooth. It's very comfortable to read. However, there are too many names and relationships mentioned in the article that I can't remember. However, except for the heroine's own family, the others are not important. It doesn't matter whether I remember it or not. The heroine is a person with great personality and ideas, and the characters in the book are also vividly and vividly described. The scraps and pieces of chickens and dogs in the village are also written very realistically and interestingly. The book is quite good, I recommend it.

This book is really great. Although it is a period novel, the protagonist's family is very open-minded and open-minded in their thoughts. Even if the mother is stubborn and stubborn due to the influence of her original family, she still listens to advice. This means that although everyone has different personalities, if they think in the same place and work hard in the same place, life will definitely get better and better. Needless to say, my father is a unique star in the period literature. He has given his children full support and affirmation since they were young, and has continuously improved himself and opened up industries to meet the needs of his children. Because he received a good upbringing in his childhood, he can also give love back to his children after they get married. Both daughters have been raised to be confident, generous and independent. My mother is somewhat of a control group for my father. She was asked by her widowed mother to be independent since she was a child, to support the family on her own, and to be hardworking and capable. This resulted in her inevitably being somewhat stubborn and aloof. She was used to repressive education, and was also somewhat imprisoned by feudal ideas. Some authors think that the father takes his two daughters to isolate the mother, but in fact the two people have conflicts in their education and consumption concepts. Isn't it normal for the father with more advanced and correct ideas to have the upper hand? It is also reasonable for the two daughters to choose their father. It is true that the father's approach is child-centered and does not conform to the modern concept of valuing a partner. However, the two of them live together without any emotional basis. At the same time, they still have conflicts of values. It is not easy to live peacefully. It is really difficult to ask him to put his mother first. But it is impossible to say that my father is faultless. He is lacking in human etiquette, and even looked down on his mother at first. Therefore, the existence of grandma is particularly important in mediating family relationships. Even my mother admits that if she did not have a diligent and considerate mother-in-law, she would not necessarily live so comfortably. Grandma would understand my mother's character flaws that arose from the loss of her father. Without her strong and independent character, she would not have been able to survive at that time. She will also make up for her father's shortcomings in human etiquette, and ease the conflicts between husband and wife without overly intervening. Grandma is also an old lady with great wisdom in life. Congcong and Mingming are children that I also envy. With the unconditional love of their father and grandmother, and the dual support of their hard-spoken, soft-hearted but loving mother, they have the courage to express their thoughts, always believe that they are the best, and know the world but not the world. This is the confidence and confidence brought by their family. Congcong knows that his mother prefers his younger sister but doesn't mind because he believes that he has a father who will always support him. Although he is clearly aware of his mother's tendencies, he has no grudge against her sister and even follows her unconditionally. He is very clear-minded and open-minded. There are other characters with distinctive personalities that are worthy of analysis, but due to space limitations, we cannot list them all. All in all, this is a period novel that mainly explores family and kinship relationships. It is ordinary and has no major ups and downs, but it is a good article worth recalling.

Super nice. Each character may not be perfect, but they are all vivid. The heroine is so happy that I want to cry, envious and relieved. It seems that I was treated with such care when I was a child😭😭

It's so beautiful. Really, this is the best dad I've ever seen. Whether it's the second dimension or the third dimension, it's true that there are thresholds for being a dad. Grandma and mom are also very good. Their personalities are very distinctive. Everyone in the book has their own characteristics. The most confident father-daughter duo, hahahaha, so interesting

This is the story of a family growing up together. From being born in the countryside to studying in a big city, parents, especially the father, gave their daughters the most tolerant love. They praised, encouraged and taught their daughters, but did not scold or belittle them. They did not follow the social disciplines that girls must have. The two girls grew up in a loving family and finally became what they wanted to be. Similarly, in traditional rural thinking, women are still a group that is bound and disciplined, and there are too many little girls in the control group. This is the best father I have ever seen. A normal father figure should be like this.

Very good looking, I really like the smart and smart family. Grandma loves her granddaughter sensibly and does not cause trouble for her son and daughter-in-law. Dad is really far-sighted. The way he raises his daughter is much more competent than many fathers today. Mom, as for her, is a talkative person. Although she always talks about her two daughters, it does not mean that she does not love her daughter. The most important thing is to see my mother gradually awakening. The personalities of the two daughters are a combination of their parents, narcissistic + selfish (a complimentary word haha). I wish Congmingming grows up healthily, and I wish the author to write better and better, and please make more updates.