Faced with loneliness, people are often confused by the various problems involved. On the one hand, it is impossible to circumvent or ignore these confusions and pretend to live without confusion; on the other hand, it is not content to continue to be confused and disturbed for a long time.
The author Chen Guo regards these confusions as lessons in her life, and uses philosophical thinking to sort out, analyze, and resolve doubts to help readers understand loneliness, better embrace loneliness, and become a better version of themselves, so as to understand life better and love life more.
"Good Loneliness" is a popular philosophy book. It selects Chen Guo, a Ph. D., From more than ten years of life thinking and teaching experience, and includes the essence of her thoughts. The whole book contains many lonely people's confusion and questioning about life, life, self, and the world.
In eight chapters, Chen Guo points out a logical and self-consistent clear path for lonely people: good loneliness allows you to understand yourself better and become a better version of yourself.
Reader comments
This book reminded me of a friend of mine who was always lonely but didn't know how to deal with it. This book tells us that loneliness is not a bad thing. It can help us understand ourselves better and love others better. As the book says, before you find a soulmate, you must learn to be your own soulmate. I think this book is very inspiring. It makes me cherish the people around me more and also makes me better understand how to face my own loneliness.
This book resonated with me, especially the interpretation of loneliness. When looking for a job after graduation, I often feel lonely, but loneliness is not a bad thing. As the book says, loneliness can help us understand ourselves better. I really like the book's point about confidants. It is rare to find souls that are compatible with each other. Before that, we must learn to enjoy being alone and be our own confidants. This book is like a dear friend and has given me a lot of inspiration.
I like Teacher Chen Guo very much. Thanks to the teacher for explaining loneliness. In the past, I was afraid of loneliness and could not avoid it. After reading it, I found that loneliness is good, we need loneliness, and it is different from loneliness. There is also the definition of friends. I have given up my expectations for friends. The teacher talks about a very high level of friendship. I have not yet achieved it. I will stay closer and not burden my friends. I will also let myself go. I can face them sincerely, but it's not real enough. Pain and joy, melancholy tones intertwined with joyful tones, are nourishing. Yes, I used to only long for positive sunshine and avoid pain and sadness. As a result, they accompanied me the most. In fact, I didn't pay enough attention to them. I should accompany them quietly and let them pass by slowly. I should accept them. Most days are dull and there are not so many highlights. I have to learn to accept them. It's okay to be sentimental. I can think about many things, but I have to learn to filter them instead of just dwelling on them. Enjoy yourself. Look within. And confidence comes from self-knowledge. I analyze myself clearly. I have my own strengths and weaknesses. I know what I can do and what I can't do. I am confident. Maturity is not just changes in worldly physiology and appearance. There is also something I have never thought of before. A person's spiritual maturity is used to maintain his or her inner world. Respect, accept yourself, truly look at things correctly, and deal with them correctly. No gold is enough and no one is perfect. At the same time, you don't have to rush to repay your gratitude. There is only so much time to come. Otherwise, you will regard the kindness of others as a debt of gratitude and a spiritual burden. Instead, it will become a debt and pressure that will make you sleepless and unforgettable. Sincerely accept the kindness of others and pass it on - this is the appropriate expression of gratitude. Be grateful, be curious, be repentant, and treat the present well. Now is very important. Love yourself from the bottom of your heart. Appearance is not important. Inner temperament, inner strength, upward life state, and love for life. Treating something meaningful and interesting transformation and development. Spend your whole life and feel happy.
I'm curious, what kind of people like to read books like this? Is there anyone like me who is constantly struggling in the mud of life, trying to break through this mental shackles?
This book can help you get to know yourself well when you are confused and hesitant. Only by being alone with yourself and getting to know yourself can you understand your deep needs.
Extending self-knowledge and self-love in solitude to knowing and loving others when getting along is good love.
There are so many good books to read, thank you Tomato
Teacher Chen Guo's writing style is very smooth, with quotations from scriptures between the lines, and her expressions are poetic and wonderful.
5 Stars set off, I hope it lives up to expectations.
It is a very philosophical and good book that understands human nature, understands humanity, and is humane! It's very heart-warming to read!
It's easy to read and find resonance in your heart
Very good. Keep reading.
A book worth reading many times
I like to give likes to the author and teacher
It's pretty good. I personally feel that it pays attention to personal cultivation.
Reading this book reminded me of a saying, any fate that is too close will inevitably end early.
Use the most simple words to let me understand the mystery of philosophy.
Savor it carefully in your spare time and understand the truth of life!
Very philosophical, you can internalize it in your heart and learn to talk and get along with yourself
This book reminded me of a friend of mine who was always lonely but didn't know how to deal with it. This book tells us that loneliness is not a bad thing. It can help us understand ourselves better and love others better. As the book says, before you find a soulmate, you must learn to be your own soulmate. I think this book is very inspiring. It makes me cherish the people around me more and also makes me better understand how to face my own loneliness.
This book resonated with me, especially the interpretation of loneliness. When looking for a job after graduation, I often feel lonely, but loneliness is not a bad thing. As the book says, loneliness can help us understand ourselves better. I really like the book's point about confidants. It is rare to find souls that are compatible with each other. Before that, we must learn to enjoy being alone and be our own confidants. This book is like a dear friend and has given me a lot of inspiration.
I like Teacher Chen Guo very much. Thanks to the teacher for explaining loneliness. In the past, I was afraid of loneliness and could not avoid it. After reading it, I found that loneliness is good, we need loneliness, and it is different from loneliness. There is also the definition of friends. I have given up my expectations for friends. The teacher talks about a very high level of friendship. I have not yet achieved it. I will stay closer and not burden my friends. I will also let myself go. I can face them sincerely, but it's not real enough. Pain and joy, melancholy tones intertwined with joyful tones, are nourishing. Yes, I used to only long for positive sunshine and avoid pain and sadness. As a result, they accompanied me the most. In fact, I didn't pay enough attention to them. I should accompany them quietly and let them pass by slowly. I should accept them. Most days are dull and there are not so many highlights. I have to learn to accept them. It's okay to be sentimental. I can think about many things, but I have to learn to filter them instead of just dwelling on them. Enjoy yourself. Look within. And confidence comes from self-knowledge. I analyze myself clearly. I have my own strengths and weaknesses. I know what I can do and what I can't do. I am confident. Maturity is not just changes in worldly physiology and appearance. There is also something I have never thought of before. A person's spiritual maturity is used to maintain his or her inner world. Respect, accept yourself, truly look at things correctly, and deal with them correctly. No gold is enough and no one is perfect. At the same time, you don't have to rush to repay your gratitude. There is only so much time to come. Otherwise, you will regard the kindness of others as a debt of gratitude and a spiritual burden. Instead, it will become a debt and pressure that will make you sleepless and unforgettable. Sincerely accept the kindness of others and pass it on - this is the appropriate expression of gratitude. Be grateful, be curious, be repentant, and treat the present well. Now is very important. Love yourself from the bottom of your heart. Appearance is not important. Inner temperament, inner strength, upward life state, and love for life. Treating something meaningful and interesting transformation and development. Spend your whole life and feel happy.
I'm curious, what kind of people like to read books like this? Is there anyone like me who is constantly struggling in the mud of life, trying to break through this mental shackles?
This book can help you get to know yourself well when you are confused and hesitant. Only by being alone with yourself and getting to know yourself can you understand your deep needs.
Extending self-knowledge and self-love in solitude to knowing and loving others when getting along is good love.
There are so many good books to read, thank you Tomato
Teacher Chen Guo's writing style is very smooth, with quotations from scriptures between the lines, and her expressions are poetic and wonderful.
5 Stars set off, I hope it lives up to expectations.
It is a very philosophical and good book that understands human nature, understands humanity, and is humane! It's very heart-warming to read!
It's easy to read and find resonance in your heart
Very good. Keep reading.
A book worth reading many times
I like to give likes to the author and teacher
It's pretty good. I personally feel that it pays attention to personal cultivation.
Reading this book reminded me of a saying, any fate that is too close will inevitably end early.
Use the most simple words to let me understand the mystery of philosophy.
Savor it carefully in your spare time and understand the truth of life!
Very philosophical, you can internalize it in your heart and learn to talk and get along with yourself