The World of Mother and Daughter: the Contradiction Between Love and Hatred

An absent father An exhausted mother, faced with her father's absence, resents and loves him deeply at the same time. The mother is in the entanglement of love and hate. She was trapped deep in the present. Anxiety. Painful emotions. Murmured to himself. The child feels it. Maternal anxiety. To the absence of the father. Complained against his father. Children hear this content a lot. The child resented her father, but when she saw it. When Dad comes back and is treated like a king. When mother is happy. She feels cheated and she thinks her mother is a double standard. In fact, what she didn't see was. My mother hated and loved this man. Love him because he is your lover. Huh, I hate him because his absence makes his children overwhelmed. Life is hard because of love. Because of children. Only then did she hold on hard and not fall down. She did her best.

It's a very good book. I saw my own shadow and my mother's shadow in the author. Although I have grown up and have begun to try to become a complete individual with my mother. But I may have overlooked whether my mother did it.

This book truly depicts the complex emotions between mother and daughter. I especially liked the author's in-depth analysis of the mother-daughter relationship, which gave me a new understanding of my relationship with my mother. Some of the misunderstandings and solutions mentioned in the book are also very enlightening. However, I hate the mother who always makes her daughter physically and mentally exhausted. Her behavior is really disturbing. Overall, this is a book worth reading and will give you a deeper understanding of the mother-daughter relationship.