The Willow Is Most Graceful

Tolstoy wrote at the beginning of "Anna Karenina" that happy families are all alike, and unhappy families are each unhappy in their own way. I have no intention of using novels to describe how every unfortunate family is unhappy, but I want to write about how every happy family and life are created. I believe that the pillar of family happiness and a happy life is not men, but a wise hostess. The ancestors said that marrying a good woman will bring prosperity to three generations. It is by no means a lie. Although the heroines in my novels all have different growth backgrounds and stories, their spiritual cores are similar: generous, able to carry things clearly, smart, contented, self-respecting, self-loving, clear-headed, tolerant, wise, kind, good at expressing, grateful, optimistic and positive. This world indeed has too high demands on women. As a feminist, it should be the mission of our generation of female authors to awaken those little girl readers who try to rely on men, who think that getting married is the end, or who regard men as their entire life. The world is a big and wonderful place, and we should explore more possibilities instead of drawing a line. Although I am a firm supporter of getting married and having children, I am not limited by worldly perspectives, and I feel that entering marriage, raising children, and creating a happy family with each other is a new level of life. New tests can make me stronger and thicker, enrich my life experience, help me explore more possibilities in life, and I can also have more materials and inspiration to create. In short, if women are not clear-headed and can't handle it clearly, they will inevitably torture each other and torture each other. This family is basically finished. No matter how rich you are, it doesn't matter. Happy wife, happy life. As long as women clearly realize where their focus is and realize that they are the masters and pillars of their lives, they can't rely on anyone. When you get old and look back on your life, you will find that your life is actually a Mary Sue article. Stop when the light is red and go when the light is green. This is a rule that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. When we were young, both our elders and teachers taught us to look both ways before crossing the road, confirm that there are no cars before walking, and drive with caution. At that time, I didn't understand. I felt that passing on a green light was our natural right as pedestrians, so why should we be so cautious and unnecessary? , When I grew up, I gradually understood that if you obey the rules and the other party does not obey the rules and runs a red light, although he is fully responsible, it is you who bears the consequences. We may become disabled, become a vegetative state, or even die on the spot. No matter what the consequences are, we cannot afford it. It doesn't matter how much money the other party pays, because we are already finished. It follows from this that we are always the first ones responsible for ourselves. It is outrageous to place our hopes on the idealism that everyone will abide by the rules and no one will run a red light. From this, I thought that the same is true for us when we get married and have children. Women are given by God the privilege of giving birth to life. If we place our hopes on the father of the child and think that the father is rich and loves the child, we can have the child and be the boss after the birth. That is equivalent to handing over the steering wheel to others. There are too many variables. We can only have one reason for having children. That means I have thought about it, I am ready, I am willing and able to bear the risks and responsibilities that come with having a child, otherwise it will all be empty talk, and there will be another innocent and unfortunate child in the world. In this process, men can only be a helper, not the core. The backbone can only be ourselves. If this helper is qualified, we can use it. If he is not qualified, it is not impossible to leave the father and leave the son.

The love between the male and female protagonists is very sweet. Both of them are very charming. I haven't seen such a sweet relationship in a long time. In addition, the careers of the male and female protagonists are developing very well. There are also stories about many supporting characters and friends of the hero and heroine.

Thank you to the author for writing such a good book full of warmth and wisdom, which allows us to see the best of love and friendship. In the process of reading this book, my heart has always been warm, and I can also feel the principles of dealing with people conveyed by the author through the characters. The author is like a little sun, emitting warm light of bravery, kindness, transparency, loyalty and chivalry. Thanks again to the author for the touching and thinking that gave me more power to "grow towards the sun".

The youthful student days, the hazy and sweet atmosphere of love, and the classmates and friends who studied hard are still vivid in my mind.

I think it's very beautiful, but why are there so few reviews? Pingping is really an ideal in the world. Mei Yang is right. She fulfills the different fantasies of her partner in different situations, and the girl is also deeply moved. Family and friendship are managed very well, and she is probably a heroine in terms of personality and charm. Except for the fact that Mei Yang changed his choice without telling me at the beginning, and expected to be separated from him for ten years, everything else was fine.

It's really beautiful. The heroine is very full and she is what I hope to be. I want to read all the author's books.

Author, the characters you write are so perfect.

It was so good that I stayed up late to watch it

The three views are particularly upright. The representative of contemporary young people is that there are too many [hahahaha] in the article [laughing]

A very nice book, recommended for every woman to read