Zhang Youyi: You Have Always Relied on Yourself to Achieve Success in Life

After reading her vicissitudes of legend, respect surges like a tide. The power of women is so powerful and has always been so majestic and tenacious! We are not dependent on anyone, let him be strong, and the green mountains will blow over the hills. There is always a fire burning that cannot be extinguished. The fire spreads everywhere to brighten the way forward and warm others. I learned a lot from Zhang Youyi. When I read about her life, I felt admiration in my heart. Her life was bitter, sad, despised, happy, and joyful. This is our life, ups and downs, but always heading to a broader land, tasting all kinds of life. In an almost cruel way, she completely cut off her illusion of dependence on the outside world and others. It is this desperate situation that forces her to face herself and discover the power hidden within. Isn't Youyi's past full of scars a kind of "luck" bestowed by fate? When encountering anything, she never gets impatient, never gives up, and solves problems when they arise. In a society where things are changing, she works hard and turns suffering into fertile soil; she waits for flowers to bloom and allows perseverance to bear fruit. So believe in yourself, believe in your own strength, and your life will always be fulfilled by yourself!

The article has beautiful words and rich and delicate emotions. It embodies the female image of a traditional woman born in New China who was born in New China without Western thoughts and enlightenment. Life has always been achieved by oneself. I was attracted by the title of the book at first, but I was deeply attracted by the plot of Mary Sue, which is not about the so-called heroine turning around and counterattack after encountering the most unfair harm and indifference, but about the most real accumulation and grinding in those quiet years, the learning and progress step by step, and the self-improvement and breakthrough day by day. Gentleness and bravery coexist, virtuous and open. She did not choose to rot in the wrong marriage, but swallowed her tears and took the wounds to turn a bad marriage into a good school. In the process of continuous learning, she became a true self. She did not live in the hatred of being let down. Instead of devouring himself, he worked hard to turn his wounds into roses, educated his sons, served his ex-husband's parents voluntarily, and his girlfriends and widows who were loyal and considerate of his ex-husband. They decently and generously proved to the world that they were not worth dying for any man, and lived with the calm attitude of a sonorous rose. This is the vision and magnanimity that a tough woman should have, and I admire it without being moved. When I was young, I only knew Lin Huiyin's talent and rationality, and Lu Xiaoman's grace and grace. But in middle age, I clearly understand Zhang Youyi's stability, elegance, and openness and tolerance. People are as light as chrysanthemums, and they are as peaceful as rituals.

Perhaps Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin, and Lu Xiaoman were too dazzling, making Zhang Youyi look a little dim. Looking at her life, she was so extraordinary, knowledgeable, capable, and broad-minded, and lived a more exciting life than many women.

This book gave me a deeper understanding of Zhang Youyi. The author's interviews and information are very detailed. Thinking of "Little Feet and Suit", which also tells the story of Zhang Youyi, this book may focus more on her inner world. She is strong in the turmoil, and I admire her self-reliance and independence. The remaining lotuses in the rain and snow are just like her life, which can still bloom beautifully even after going through wind and frost.

After reading this book, I also read everyone's comments after it was over. They all have different opinions and there are endless opinions. Her education is not high, so I can only comment based on my own level. Her life has been ups and downs. From the beginning (in the current feudal society, she was born at the wrong time), this girl who loves to study and has dreams has to compromise and do things she doesn't like. In the middle, she encountered unsatisfactory marriage and love. When she was abandoned by Xu Zhimo, I cried. As a woman, I feel really helpless and scared. But she was not depressed, but tried her best to live her life. While she was rational and worried about life, she continued to learn and improve herself, step by step, and take every step in a down-to-earth manner. The hardships that life has brought to her have not made her forget her original intention. She still takes things one day at a time, which is really admirable. In the end, her personal experience is that her life is rich and colorful, but behind the glamor is suffering, loneliness, and hardship. His ambition and hard-working spirit are worth watching for our modern children, letting them know that although suffering is not praised, suffering can make people grow, because everyone will have ups and downs in life, and being strong will bring about a different self. This is just a personal opinion [smile]

I feel that it is true that the so-called new-age men who returned from studying abroad in that era were well-educated and wealthy, but it is also true that their outlook on life was incorrect. What they say is the pursuit of independent marriage, but at the expense of hurting their wives without any bottom line, it is really ridiculous. Even though Xu Zhimo is talented, he seduces his friend's wife and does such immoral things. Reading so many books is all spent on writing poetry. Being Zhang Youyi's husband is really bad. I admire Zhang Youyi's tenacity. When she was abandoned by her husband, she did not give up on herself, but worked hard to improve herself. Through her continuous efforts, she finally lived the most wonderful life. As modern women, we should do this even more. Marriage is never a safe haven and we should not rely on anyone. Because we always want to find a big tree for shelter and shelter from the wind and rain, but we must know that this big tree can shelter us from the wind and rain, and it can also prevent us from seeing the sun. Therefore, only by continuing to make progress and becoming independent can women take the initiative. Even if your marriage fails, you still have the courage and confidence to start over. The only thing that makes me feel regretful is that no matter how much Xu Zhimo hurts her, she still loves Xu Zhimo, just in a different identity. Maybe this is her great love spirit!

I only watched "The Biography of Lin Huiyin" many years ago. At that time, I really liked Lin Huiyin, her poetry and concentration. Now that I have seen "Zhang Youyi", I have completely different emotions. She is awe-inspiring. She is a great woman who is independent from the world. Inadvertently, I disliked Xu Zhimo a lot. When I read the biography of Lin Huiyin, I really liked him. After reading the biography of Zhang Youyi, I feel that although Xu Zhimo is extremely talented, he is also a selfish lover. Although it doesn't feel wrong to run for true love. But treating pregnant women so poorly and treating biological children so poorly is really bad. Fortunately, Xu Zhimo's parents are relatively good elders, and Zhang Youyi has received some support during difficult times. But because of the lack of support at the critical moment, he lost his beloved son. I feel like the development of things is a bit hard to describe. I just feel that life is full of twists and turns. Tears amidst suffering, life is like a play, play is like life. Her independent, self-reliant and progressive spirit is worth learning from most women.

I like Zhang Youyi very much. She lives her own life and lives a wonderful life.

The most infuriating thing after reading the whole book is that Xu Zhimo's selfishness bullied Zhang Youyi's kindness. It was Zhang Youyi's humility that made him even more presumptuous. Just as Liang Qichao said of him, he regarded his selfishness as a code of conduct and absurdity and enjoyment as the purpose of life. Although he pursued love first, his view of marriage was also influenced by his father, and Lu Xiaoman's selfishness was even more shocking. It is no wonder that the two became a couple, and the decline of their marriage in the end was essentially caused by their personalities. Marriage requires sacrifice, and how can two selfish people sacrifice for others? Lin Huiyin also takes the ambiguous pull to the extreme. Zhang Youyi is an admirable person! She is kind, strong and responsible, pursues progress, is tolerant and wise! Throughout Zhang Youyi's life, she has gone through ups and downs, experienced ups and downs, and left two husbands behind. She is also a miserable person.

This is one of my favorite Tomato novels that I have listened to for many years. After listening to it, I was filled with emotions. Unknowingly, I am already an octogenarian. I am so thirsty for literature that I use it to accompany me in my later years. I accidentally listened to it and fell in love with it. The world is so big and there are so many people, everyone can take what they need, absorb spiritual food from it, enrich cultural connotation, and live every day quietly. Thanks to the author and platform for the recommendation.

This book is good, but there are too few photos. I have to search for photos of a few more of them. Zhang has a very good face, and looks like a peaceful and peaceful country. Unfortunately, there is not much description of her married life with Su, including her relationship with her stepson and stepdaughter. After all, this is the second half of her life. In fact, Zhang was born in Rome, and we ordinary people have been chasing Rome throughout our lives. Her family background is very high, her brothers and sisters are all successful, and her circle of friends is very high. Apart from her unfortunate marriage, she has no regrets. She has a house full of elderly children and grandchildren, which is enviable. Of course, this is the result of her intelligence. Unlike Lu Xiaoman, although she has good looks and talent, her behavior in life is a few steps away from her.

The biographies are realistically written and the characters have outstanding personalities, which makes people deeply moved when reading. I am deeply attracted by the life experience of the protagonist Zhang Youyi. I read it in one go. The legendary experiences of historical figures is a good book worth reading!

My thoughts after reading Zhang Youyi's story: Breaking out of the cocoon and being reborn in a difficult situation Walking in the long river of time, I came across Zhang Youyi's story by chance, and my heart was filled with ripples, making it difficult to calm down for a long time. Zhang Youyi's background bears the typical imprint of women in the old era. She is dignified and quiet, follows the norms of traditional etiquette, and is arranged by her family to marry Xu Zhimo. However, this marriage did not become a harbor of happiness. Xu Zhimo's indifference and alienation towards her were like sharp knives, piercing her heart. In a foreign country, she suffered the fate of being abandoned, and was ruthlessly asked for a divorce even when she was pregnant. At that time, she was in the abyss of darkness, lonely, desperate, and helpless. But she was not completely swallowed up by the predicament. Instead, she struggled to get up in the pain, worked hard to learn new knowledge, got involved in the business field, and reshaped her life bit by bit. From Zhang Youyi's story, I deeply realized the majestic power of women's awakening and self-improvement. In that era of strict feudal ethics, she broke through the shackles of traditional concepts and bravely said "no" to an unhappy marriage. She is no longer a vine attached to others, but strives to grow into a towering tree, using her tenacity and wisdom to hold up the sky. Her remarkable achievements in business have proved to the world the unlimited potential of women. Her experience is like a beacon, illuminating the path of self-growth and liberation for women. It makes us deeply realize that no matter what difficulties and obstacles we find ourselves in, as long as we have hope and firm faith, we can find a way out of difficulties and realize the sublimation of our self-worth. At the same time, this story also gave me a new understanding of the setbacks and hardships in life. The hardships Zhang Youyi encountered may be unbearable for ordinary people, but she turned them into the cornerstone for moving forward. This made me understand that setbacks are not the end of life, but a turning point in growth. Every fall is an opportunity to stand up again; every failure is a stepping stone to success. As long as we have an indomitable spirit like Zhang Youyi, we can overcome obstacles on the road of life and welcome our own glory.

This kind of Zhang Youyi makes people feel sad and admired. She has reconciled with too many injustices in her life. She has lived a good life and managed her career well as her backer. She is really a woman with a strong core.

Through this book, I learned about Xu Zhimo's passion, Lin Huiyin's rationality, Lu Xiaoman's extravagance, and Zhang Youyi's generosity. Heaven is so good at reincarnation, who will the heaven bypass? Zhang Youyi's good death proves that kindness always pays off!

I finished reading it in almost a day and was attracted by the people and stories in it. Zhang Youyi's self-improvement, bravery and tenacity are very attractive to me, and I am also attracted by her generosity. She can try to forgive the people around her, such as Xu Zhimo's betrayal, and is very tolerant of their parents. She only blindly pursues her brothers and sisters without caring about her own feelings and contributions, but she can also understand them. The attitude to deal with life calmly, such as not running away from difficulties, facing them seriously, and studying. She said she can't just study. Learning requires a lot of sacrifice, including learning English, French, starting a clothing business, becoming a banker, and becoming a teacher. From a simple little woman to a not simple person, she can shine without the halo of others. She already lives in my heart.

Zhang Youyi endures humiliation and bears the burden, and her life is very exciting! People are born upright and beautiful, worthy of respect! Zhang Youyi should be the living Bodhisattva of Xu Zhimo's family! Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman are both showmen! Xu Zhimo is too blind to see Mount Tai! There is so much in the world, especially Lu Xiaoman's corrupt life, which should not be something a family can support at all. Too much work would destroy the family! Lin Huiyin is both talented and beautiful. In fact, he is a very sober and enterprising person. He lives a moderate life. He is the goddess in my heart!

A very good book. In this ups and downs of the plot, my emotions also fluctuated. At most, I was sad. I feel sad for Zhang Youyi's sadness and forbearance when she was young; I feel angry and sad about Xu and Lu's life. Xu should have had higher achievements, but was delayed by the long love between his children. Angry at Lin's entanglement with Xu. Hey, you are a literati, life is also full of incredible things. However, seeing Zhang Youyi's later achievements and cheering for her, maybe without Xu's abandonment, there would be no strong woman Zhang Youyi [Love]

After reading Zhang Youyi's life story, I felt how short human life is. From being a little girl to someone else's daughter-in-law, from relying on her parents and her brothers and sisters to taking on the same important responsibilities as her parents with another man, it was just a blink of an eye. There is no love in the story between Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo. What I read is more about the friendship between the two. As a woman, it is sad to see that the initial love is so disappointing and unwilling. There is no respect and love between husband and wife, they just blindly follow one person's heart. But the ending is still good, life is not perfect, regrets always go together, this is probably life.

After reading "The Biography of Lin Huiyin", "The Biography of the Three Song Sisters", "The Biography of Zhang Ailing", and then reading "The Biography of Zhang Youyi", I feel that she is a model for us ordinary people to learn from. She doesn't have Lin Huiyin's lofty dreams, nor does she have the glorious family background of the three Song sisters, nor does she have Zhang Ailing's literary talent. But she is a female representative that we can learn from. The failure of her marriage did not bring her down, but instead strengthened her indestructible will. After Xu Zhimo's death, she took on everything of the Xu family. Not only did she take care of the frail old man of the Xu family and provide him with care until his death, she also provided living expenses to her love rival Lu Xiaoman every month, and raised the children by herself. What she endured was far more than that. She also took on the responsibility of taking care of her brothers and sisters after the death of Zhang's father and Zhang's mother. After going through many hardships, not only was she not overwhelmed by the suffering, but she became more independent and responsible. She is even more passionate in life, and her enthusiasm for the people around her is irresistible. Even her brother's private parties will be arranged at her home. Although they are divorced, the Xu family's parents-in-law still recognize her as their daughter-in-law. Her generosity and tolerance are beyond the reach of every ordinary woman. Her insistence on marriage was humble and weak with a touch of pride, her dedication to the family was selfless and fearless with a touch of benevolence (for the Xu family's parents and Lu Xiaoman), her love for her children was a bit regretful, and her passion for life was a bit more responsible. It was this experience that later led to her becoming a teacher at Soochow University, a female banker, and a Yunshang clothing store...

Just like the title of the book, life is always dependent on yourself! As a woman, Zhang Youyi did not let her failed marriage bring her down. Instead, she became self-reliant and self-loving. She is a model for women in the new era!

I just finished listening to this book, and I burst into tears. It is very beautiful. I like this kind of realistic content. It is a famous figure who is famous all over the world, and it can attract people's attention. Let me talk about my feelings. Marriage and career can be said to be the most important issues in adult life. They are also topics that each of us cannot avoid in our lives. A good marriage nourishes people. A bad marriage encourages people to grow. In that conservative old age where men were superior to women, we can see how great a woman was who got rid of the secular world, gradually awakened, and had the courage to carve out her own world. She endured all the ups and downs along the way and the bitterness of this life, and used her courage to refuse to admit defeat and her perseverance to create her glory. It is a long road in life, and she will go through it and cherish it!

The writing is very good, the logic is strong, the author is very powerful, and the book is fascinating. Ms. Zhang Youyi is bold and careful. She is a very strong and independent heroine. She is too generous. Not many people can be so generous. It is admirable.

A very good book, which made my impression of Zhang Youyi even more profound. She was an independent woman who stood up in that era, full of charm. It also made me understand what happened between him and Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman. A very good book, recommended! ! !

This book vividly depicts a woman in feudal society who suffered endless cold looks and indifference, but was able to endure it silently. It was not until she was abandoned by Xu Zhimo that Zhang Youyi began to awaken and exert her own abilities to make a comeback. The good thing is that after she divorced Xu Zhimo, she still supported her parents-in-law and helped Xu Zhimo regardless of past grudges. The vivid character image is admirable and admirable. Her forbearance, her ability, and her generosity are all role models for us to learn from. It is a good book worth reading.

I like this book, this is what a woman should be like, growing her own flowers in suffering. She has done much better than many women. No matter how many difficulties and sufferings she encounters, she will grow into a self-reliant and self-reliant woman who does not need to be dependent on others.

There is no doubt that Xu Zhimo is a genius, but his views on marriage are unacceptable in both the feudal past and the present. I admire Zhang Youyi very much. Her unyielding, tenacity, bravery, and responsibility are beyond the reach of ordinary people. Some people say that she made a lot of money in business because of luck. I think luck can only account for a small part. In fact, it is mainly about daring to do things, being decisive, and working hard. After reading this book, I want to say to Mr. Zhang Youyi: You have done better than modern women. You are a role model for our modern women. Here I also want to say to myself: Come on, improve yourself, there will be a time when you are good enough.

The narrative content is objective, rich and complete, the description of emotions is delicate, real and full, the plot is full of ups and downs, twists and turns, the relationships between the characters are complex and clearly traceable. It is a high-quality story of historical figures and an unforgettable love story of joys and sorrows. Thank you to the author for dedicating an immortal work to the readers!

If you want to know about Zhang Youyi's life, you can read this book. This book records Zhang Youyi's life in more detail (the reason for the five stars). Zhang Youyi has indeed lived her life as a heroine. Her character background is also the reason for her success and longevity. However, some text descriptions have the author's personal emotions, so this book looks like a biography and a novel. I wish you all a rational and happy reading.

Because I like Xu Zhimo's poems, I love the whole house. I also want to know what kind of strange woman Zhang Youyi is, the ex-wife of this romantic poet, and what kind of strange experiences and changes she had with Xu Zhimo. I read about Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo's family backgrounds and interesting stories when they were young. The more I read in the book, the more I was attracted by the talents of Zhang Youyi, who is neither arrogant nor humble, and the interesting poet Xu Zhimo. Listen to the stories of famous people and understand your own life. It is a very touching biography. It writes the life of Zhang Youyi, a woman who is not only a man, but also vivid and touching. I did not expect that such a strong woman would intersect with the famous poet Xu Zhimo. They kept arguing and became confused. They were once husband and wife, and they were once like brothers and sisters. The two were entangled endlessly, which made people curious.