
An Unmarried Older Daughter, Shunned by All
女大不嫁,众叛亲离
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- Completed
- Length
- 110k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Workplace & Marriage
- Updated
- 3y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
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This book tells about a cruel social phenomenon, and it reminded me that I must make a lot of money! Have your own foundation!
Analyze the mentality of the sister-in-law who said in Chapter 9 "Encirclement and Suppression" that she is very polite to others but should be mean to her aunt: This contrast of "being polite to others and mean to others" is essentially the dual role of interest stance and social mask. It is often seen in the role mentality in family conflicts: On the one hand, being polite to outsiders is a "social need" - there is no direct conflict of interest with outsiders, and being polite can maintain her image of being "easy to get along with" and avoid causing trouble; but it is different with her aunt. In her eyes, her aunt is a "stakeholder who has lived with her for a long time." She may feel that her aunt "occupies the resources of her brother's family" (such as living at home and using her water to boil), and regards her as a "potential trouble or threat", so she no longer needs to be polite, which directly exposes her dissatisfaction with "resources being occupied". On the other hand, there may also be a "sense of superiority in the family role" at play - she feels that she is the "sister-in-law" and one of the "mistresses" of the family, while her aunt is a "temporary resident from outside". Therefore, in her "home field", there is no need to restrain her temper towards "outsiders". Instead, she will use a mean attitude to draw "boundaries" to prove her right to speak in this family. To put it simply, being polite to others is "pretending to be decent to outsiders", while being mean to your aunt is "a true reaction to safeguarding your own interests and position internally". This contrast is particularly close to the conflicting mentality of some families in reality.
Thinking about this social problem from multiple dimensions, the daughter's psychological analysis is good, the son's perspective can be more profound, but it still points out the root of the problem. The ending ended quickly and I didn't get enough of it.
It's so real
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I feel deeply, the second child in me