Why Grow Up

I really like the perspective of this book. It explores a proposition that is closely related to everyone, that is, what growth is and how we face the problems that arise during the growth process. In the author's view, growth is "an ideal that is difficult to fully realize but definitely worth striving for." This sentence points out that there must be a distance between the should goal of growth and the actual goal. It is always difficult for us to become the kind of perfect and powerful person we hope to be, and we are even forced to accept our own mediocrity. But this is the only way to grow. Don't worry about the rules, and don't regret too much for the mistakes you made.

Why grow up? This is a question worth thinking about. It is said that when we were young, we longed to grow up, but when we grew up, we became the kind of people we hated the most when we were young. So what does growing up bring us? Is it endless pain? "Growth is more about courage than knowledge: all the knowledge in the world cannot replace your courage to use your own judgment." Maybe what you will face when you grow up is the shattering of some ideals. Growing up is never idealism. Philosophy cannot alleviate the suffering that growth brings us, because real life is always unreasonable and cannot develop according to our expectations. But we must not be reached by suffering, but become a better version of ourselves in it.

So well written! This must be praised. Seeing such words is like getting a frozen drink in the hot summer, or seeing a flame in the cold winter. The current social environment really needs such sober views and thoughts. People are given shackles tailor-made for them before they are even born, like rings before a wedding even takes place. What are we living for? Is it to go back regularly every year to repair the weeds on the graves of our ancestors? Is it to take care of your parents who will grow old one day? Is it for the glory of our ancestors that people have imposed on us? How many people have ever tried to really stop and take a look at themselves, who they are, and whether they are themselves? Or do we have the right to stop, can we stop?

Taking the psychological principles of growth and development as the main purpose of inquiry, it analyzes the process of children's growth from multiple angles. The content is easy to understand, simple to explain, and creative. The author explains various principles through specific cases and charts, allowing readers to understand children's growth and development step by step. He also explains things that cannot be ignored in the growth process, and provides good guidelines and suggestions. The author conducts analysis from various levels and reveals to readers the role of multiple aspects of content in children's growth.

This book was interesting and made me think about what it means to grow up. The views in the book are very profound. For example, we should understand reality while not giving up the pursuit of an ideal world. I like the discussion about growth and responsibility in the book. It makes me understand that we need to face the difficulties in life bravely. I felt like the protagonist in the book, trying to find a way to grow. This book made me more determined to change my life through learning.

At first glance, this question looks like a question a child would ask. With ignorant and fearless faces, children ask adults why they need to grow up. Growing up means changing from a child role to an adult role. It also means that people have to bear more responsibilities and obligations in society. We must find our own place in different relationships and atmospheres such as work, marriage, family, and friends, and let ourselves take the responsibility for growth.