Native Family Psychology

This book analyzes many personality defects caused by the family of origin, and analyzes the deep-seated factors that cause such defects, as well as the attitudes and methods that parents and children should adopt to deal with these problems when facing these situations. Although there is no specific implementation plan, it points out a direction for parents and children who are deeply troubled by it. At the end of each chapter, you will be asked three small questions. These three small questions can allow you to find your own problems, understand the causes, and think about corresponding solutions. The theory of this book is relatively strong, and the practical operation needs to be examined. There are some introductions at the beginning of each chapter, and the stories at the beginning of each section can arouse some thinking. Overall, it is not bad, and it will be of great help to those who need help.

I especially agree with the view in the book that parents' words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Just like some of my friends, many of their characters and behaviors were influenced by their families of origin. The book also features some nasty characters, such as abusive parents, which are really infuriating. Fortunately, the book also provides some methods of self-transformation and personality reshaping, which are very helpful to me. I think this book is not only suitable for newly married people like me, but also for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and their family of origin.

Reading this book feels like looking in the mirror, parents can't read the series [face covering]

The writing is very good. I can see my own reflection in the descriptions in the book. It is worth reading and I have benefited a lot.

Many parents basically don't look at problems from their children's perspective. It's really rare to find parents who can look at problems from their children's perspective and then in turn. Many families of origin leave permanent scars on their children. Reconciliation is not because they have looked away, but because the person involved has let go of himself. Those who cannot let go are the end of the road. I have seen several cases of people committing suicide due to depression due to their family of origin.

After reading this book, I mentioned some case studies earlier. Forgive the harm caused by your original family, learn to talk to yourself, come on!

Family of origin is the background, but it is not everything. Rather than blaming the past, it is more important to understand the causes and ultimately move toward self-healing.

After reading this, I realized how much my childhood experiences would have a huge impact on my personality when I grow up. It's a pity that I didn't read this book earlier.

Everyone has a different growth environment, different experiences, different education methods, and everyone is different. Therefore, when getting along, you cannot force others to understand your three views. Mutual tolerance is the best way to deal with things.

The writing is very clear, and there are many things that I have never thought of.

Good-looking, worth watching and learning again and again