We Love Each Other, Yet We Both Despise Each Other
相爱两相厌
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- Completed
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- 1.7M Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Workplace & Marriage
- Updated
- 5y ago
- English
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This is a novel with two male protagonists. One of them goes through a nightmare trying to win back the female lead, but to no avail. I've read this novel countless times; it's incredibly good. The writing is quite realistic, and the male and female leads aren't portrayed as godlike figures. Many young girls probably experienced the female lead's youthful infatuation with men; who hasn't encountered a few jerks in their youth? Super 😍 Sheng Xiao
I was so angry and tired at the beginning, I don't know why I kept watching. Maybe it was because the female lead's experiences were so tragic, and I wanted to see how the scumbag male lead would redeem himself... The story six years after "Youth Debt" completely reversed, and it got better and better.
The author's writing is excellent, the plot is fresh, and the characters are well-described. I really like the cousin in the story; he seems cold but is kind-hearted. Whenever the female lead encounters difficulties, it's always the cousin who silently solves them. I especially hope the female lead and the cousin end up together. I hope the later plot becomes a bit more heart-wrenching so the cousin doesn't get to win the beauty's heart so easily, hahaha!
The beginning was so dramatic and heart-wrenching, I was gritting my teeth, both angry and wanting to keep watching. The ending was relatively happy—the cousin finally got together with Lu Lu! The cousin is a ruthless person, so patient! Watching Lu Lu and Yu Nuo together, I don't know when he would have intervened if Jiang Ren hadn't interfered…
Oh my god, I haven't finished reading it yet, but I really think it's great, it even made me stay up all night reading it 👀. The beginning is so heartbreaking, emmm I've skipped it for now (because I couldn't stop crying after reading part of it, I might catch up to the latest chapter first and then read it backwards), looking forward to the rest of the story.
It's very good. I don't like the male lead, but I hope for a happy ending.
The ending was satisfying. The hurt can never be erased; facing it bravely is my understanding of this book. I'm so glad Sheng Xiao truly loved the female lead, and I also admire her courage. Because I'm not so lucky to encounter such a happy ending in real life, I enjoy reading novels and seeing beautiful stories in parallel universes to support my courage to persevere in the real world. I wish everyone happiness, courage, and eternal beauty.
This is a truly magical novel; it's both agonizing and exhausting to read, with constant disappearances, new female supporting characters appearing one after another, and endless conflicts—it's like playing whack-a-mole. Jiang Ren is the most regrettable and heartbreaking character I've ever read.
I really love this book. Although it's quite heart-wrenching, I think it's the best one I've ever read. I hope the female lead's life gets better and better. Personally, I don't really like the male lead because he toyed with the female lead's feelings. I hope he ends up alone. I quite like Sheng Xiao and hope he can be with the female lead, but I don't think it will happen. But everyone needs to have fantasies, right? 😊
It's so good! I'm so glad I didn't end up with the male lead; I'm so happy! The female lead's love was so subservient in the beginning, and the male lead suffered so much later on, hahaha, I'm so happy! Although the plot is a bit long, it's one of the few novels I could actually get into.