To love and be loved are both part of longing. When someone can put their yearning into words and express it with such graceful freedom, pouring their whole heart into it and swimming in the ocean of love, that's wonderful. Liking someone is a manifestation of love. To write out your most beautiful love in that affection is a rare gift, making your love more fulfilling and more beautiful.
The Collection of Longing falls short of this beauty, leaving one with regrets.
This novel and its characters are entirely fictional. Any resemblance is purely coincidental. Do not imitate.