Every adult man, as long as he has no physical defects, will have an expectation in his daily life, looking forward to an romantic encounter.
We can't say that a man is flirtatious or lustful, and we can't even condemn him morally.
Because this is just an expectation, a subconscious psychological activity, the vast majority of men can still keep themselves safe and will not take the initiative.
I am also such a man, a man who longs for romantic encounters.
I experienced an affair, an affair that changed the fate of my life.