In six years of marriage, Su Nian spent the entire 350,000 yuan dowry her parents gave her on their household. Having a baby, hiring a confinement nanny, paying the utility bills, buying formula: she remembered every expense.
But her husband said, “I never spent your money.”
She had just had her C-section stitches removed when her mother-in-law arrived with a basket of supplements. Su Nian thought they were for her, but her mother-in-law said, “These are for my son. Make him soup with this ginseng every morning. Don't forget.”
When her father was hospitalized with a heart attack, her husband kept score with her outside the ward: “Your family didn't bring enough to the table. I lost out by marrying you.”
At last, she gave up and divorced him, taking their two children with her. He chased after her and fell to his knees in tears. She looked at him and suddenly smiled.
“The thing you've said most often is, ‘I never spent your money.’ Now I'm giving those words back to you: I owe you nothing. And I don't want what you owe me, either, because you could never repay it.”
The most toxic thing in a marriage is never the quarrels, but the fact that you give everything, but he only takes it for granted. Author's words:
The most toxic thing in a marriage is never the quarrels, but the fact that you give everything, but he only takes it for granted.
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The most toxic thing in a marriage is never the quarrels, but the fact that you give everything, but he only takes it for granted. Author's words: The most toxic thing in a marriage is never the quarrels, but the fact that you give everything, but he only takes it for granted. Text: