Countercurrent Harbor

At first, I came here for the food articles about Yan Shui, but later on I became more and more surprised. This is a food article that is different from the traditional one - the female protagonist is outside and the male protagonist is inside! The transformation of family roles is very interesting. Through some knowledge of real estate marketing and operation cases, I can better understand the perspective of the heroine. From this, I can see that the author's preparations are very good! Moreover, the article mentions many realistic viewpoints, and I often stop and think about it halfway through reading. The most important thing is that the number of cars in the book is only a little over 100 million ~ Ahem, let's get back to the topic. The 35-year-old crisis was mentioned at the beginning. The male programmer is 32 years old this year and has worked in the company for eight years. From programmer to project manager to product manager, his ability is among the best in the industry, but such an outstanding person is sometimes laid off and optimized? Of course, the program was not willing to give in. Low-level mistakes like sending the wrong file were rarely made in the workplace, not to mention that he was a senior programmer. The black-hearted company is unwilling to compensate and threatens the process, "You are 32 years old this year. If you are over 35, no company will want you. The company is also thinking about you. You should be grateful to the company..." I believe many people in the workplace have heard similar words. If you want fame, wealth, money and power, you cannot escape the rules of the game of capital, and the rules of the game are not the survival of the strong, but the survival of the fittest. One person's programming ability is worse than that of a team. You say he is strong or not, then why does the company lay off him and choose someone who is not as good as him? Because capitalists are calculating costs, they cannot afford the high salary of the program, so they choose Feng Chen, a more cost-effective apprentice brought out by the program. This is true for leading Internet companies. It is unimaginable how difficult it is for workers at the bottom. When the program was unemployed and returned home, it happened that Xiang Zheng found out that she was pregnant. The program immediately decided to make soup and become a full-time cook. Many people's first impression is of housewives and mothers, but who says that only mothers can do the hard work at home? This is one of the reasons why I like this book very much, it breaks the tradition! The initiative in life should be in one's own hands, and women can hold up half the sky. However, as soon as the decision to become a stay-at-home husband came out, he was hit by the program's parents, but the program persisted, protected, and never retreated. He argued with reason, "Staying at home is also meaningful, and the person who makes the repairs is also important." "I am very proud of Xiang Zheng. She has achieved what many people cannot do."... Yes, there is no absolute division of labor in society. The roles of men and women are not static, and each family can produce different results. The program convinced my parents, but faced the incomprehension of my colleagues. Gao Wei, the former leader of Program, wanted to embarrass Program at the banquet and ridiculed him for switching from programmer to chef. Although the people present did not agree, they still had professional contempt and prejudice in their hearts. He made no secret of his love for Xiang Zheng, "Everyone's pursuits are different. I am willing to wash my hands and make soup, hiding behind the scenes, just to protect the one I love." He said proudly, "My wife Xiang Zheng is very powerful in the workplace. Her talent and determination are not inferior to any man." He gave his pure love to Xiang Zheng, hoping that she would have no worries and enjoy the warmth of home after a busy day. This is why Xiang Zheng can firmly choose the program. The workplace is always cruel. After the company learned that Xiang Zheng was pregnant, there were no notifications about rewards for new projects or new appointments. What Xiang Zheng got was accusations and accusations. She had worked at Shi'an Real Estate for six years, and had been the top salesperson for five and a half years, bringing countless benefits to the company. But when the pregnancy happened, the company's first thought was to demote her and cut her salary, or send her to projects that were almost impossible to complete. The cost of pregnancy for women is already high, and they are not treated fairly in companies. What the book says is really correct, "On the one hand, the country has relaxed the two-child policy and strongly called on young people to boldly have children. Parents are even more intensive, urging marriage and childbirth, and they are not left behind. But on the other hand, employers avoid the pregnancy problem of working women. They either prevent pregnancy or require that they cannot become pregnant within a few years. Once pregnant, it means automatic resignation." This really resonates with society. Xiang Zheng faces a lot of professional pressure, and the burden of life cannot be shouldered on her alone. The program worked silently, and on the premise of taking good care of Xiang Zheng in strict accordance with the schedule every day, he became a food blogger part-time. Top 985 master's students can not only read, but also cook, and connect reading and cooking. Who wouldn't want to watch a video like this? The gourmet Crisp Langgan developed by Lin Hong of the Song Dynasty's "Shan Jia Qing Gong", the gourmet palindrome iced lotus root developed by the Northern Song Dynasty Su Dongpo's "red hand ice bowl of lotus root, bowl of ice lotus root red hand", the pregnancy preparation meal developed by "Fu Qingzhu Nvke"... He became a food blogger, but he didn't expect fans to want him to be a learning blogger. There was no way, Xiang Zhengjia's program was too good. I have a blogger account, and the program can be a good husband and wife at home while sharing some of the expenses. Such a warm man has attracted the envy of my colleagues, so luckily I don't know until I experience it. The article also mentioned the disparity in academic qualifications, which I think is also a good reflection of reality. The program is a top student who graduated from 985, while Xiang Zheng is an ordinary college student. Xiang Zheng, who has always been a strong woman, has very low self-esteem in terms of academic qualifications, so she did not tell the program. Some people on the Internet say that people with huge disparities in academic qualifications will stay together, but they will not stay together forever. In fact, I don't think that academic qualifications are not the only benchmark. The three most important things are that the three views, temper, experience, and personality are consistent. The program and Xiang Zheng have gone through ups and downs along the way, so how can they be broken because of their academic qualifications? Xiang Zheng's ability is obvious to all. She has exceeded her quota for difficult-to-win projects, and she has the courage to fight for impossible projects. She is also excellent. The program did not mind because of her academic qualifications. Instead, she previewed adult education every day and taught Xiang Zheng in the way she liked. The two of them learn and make progress together, so Xiang Zheng and the program will definitely be happy! Xiang Zheng chose the program that suits her best among countless choices, and the program is doing its best to give Xiang Zheng the warmest harbor. As I walked, the flowers bloomed, and happiness came. I hope you can also find the book that suits you best

Give yourself an encouragement~~

It's very interesting. The three views are very correct. The male is in charge of the inside and the female is in charge of the outside. Life is not static. It's full of surprises.

In that era of dividends, real estate sales were indeed very profitable. There were not many books with female protagonists and male protagonists. I am looking forward to the plot behind it.

This book describes the breakdown of family relationships in the new era, the pain points of young people's marriage and love, and the conflicts between the female protagonist and the male protagonist. It is also very enjoyable to read. It also exposes the social reality of motherhood punishment and the absence of male childcare. It is very good.

Only those who really understand life will truly discover the goodness of this book, appreciate it, and like it.

A story that is very close to reality has been completed and is ready to be read!

The harmonious relationship between the male and female protagonists is really enviable

There is nothing wrong with the idea of ​​​​programming. Men are good at caring for their families. I support it. And the story has its own ideas. Come on, old friends.

Super nice realistic-themed article! ! ! Please update more!