Dreaming of the Early Ming

The writing is good, and there is nothing wrong with the plot. However (it may be a common problem in time travel books, a woman always appears out of nowhere, and may harm the male protagonist, and then the male protagonist tries to protect her and treats her very well). Halfway through the book, a saint from the White Lotus sect suddenly appeared and wanted to kill the male protagonist, but the male protagonist acted like a fool and wanted to marry her. I have abandoned dozens of books because of this kind of thing. I don't understand why I have to write it like this.