Mountains and Rivers to Qinghe

Xu Qinghe, the legitimate daughter of the Prime Minister's Mansion, and Yan Huaizhou, the prince of the Hou Mansion, were childhood sweethearts and got engaged. The wedding date was set for the 25th of the twelfth lunar month. On the eve of the wedding, there was an emergency at the border. Yan Huaizhou promised before going out: "I will come back to marry you years ago." However, he was defeated and died in the battle. Lincang surrendered, and Qingqing was forced by the queen to marry Jin Yue on behalf of the princess. It was snowing heavily on the day they left the city, and the sedan carrying her and the coffin carrying him passed each other on the post road - the wedding silk was facing south, the plain banner was facing north, and the red hijab and the black coffin lid were covered with the same layer of snow. He was buried in the wind and snow of his native country, while she went to the enemy's country to spend the rest of her life. The snow fell fair. Does this count as a life together?