Water Splash and Fireworks

1. The essential difference between men and women's romance: Male romance is heroism, youthfulness and self-persistence (ideals, feelings, original intentions) on a spiritual level; female romance is a sense of security, material security and life certainty (stability, sophistication, belonging) on ​​a practical level. There is no advantage or disadvantage between the two. It is a cognitive difference created by thinking and growth environment. 2. The way to reconcile the relationship between the sexes: Love is not about changing the other person, but about stepping out of the inherent cognition, understanding each other's definition of romance, loving in the way the other person needs, and realizing the symbiosis of ideals and reality. 3. Compromise and perseverance in growth: When a man moves from "teenage romance" to "bearing reality", he does not lose his original intention, but gives the romance the confidence to be implemented; when a woman accepts "emotional romance" from "reality needs", she does not give up security, but understands the preciousness of feelings.