My Mother-In-Law Is Two-Faced

When I first came to our house, my mother-in-law pretended to be gentle, kind and considerate, which made me look forward to my marriage. But after getting engaged, her controlling nature gradually came to light, and she wanted to take control of the family. After moving into the new home, most of her true colors were exposed. She asked me to care for my husband in everything, and I was responsible for all the dirty work. The whole family enjoyed peace and quiet, while she regarded herself as the queen mother and needed support. After we got married, my mother-in-law became extremely two-faced. She treated me like her own daughter when my husband was around, but she became vicious when he left me. The betrothal gift was 88,000 yuan and the three gold coins were 30,000 yuan. I returned 50,000 yuan on the day of our engagement. The actual cost of the three gold coins was only 20,000 yuan. After I got married, I made my own money and subsidized my family's expenses. My husband didn't give me a penny of his income, and I had to bear the mortgage. However, they refused to put my name on the house, saying that they were afraid that I would take half of it. My family's finances were concealed from me, and they even lied about having a foreign debt of over 100,000 yuan, scheming every step of the way. My mother-in-law has been indoctrinating me all day long that women should take care of the housework and should not be the head of the household, but she still controls the power in the family and often mocks me for asking for a much higher amount of bride price. I had unbearable abdominal pain during pregnancy. My mother-in-law prevented me from seeking medical treatment, but my husband blindly followed me. Eventually, my child was miscarried. There was no one to take care of me after the surgery, I had to bear all the expenses myself, I was forced to work only two days later, and I was subjected to all kinds of PUAs. She stole my belongings and cried when she was pointed out. She instigated my husband to argue with me. She even urged me to get pregnant despite the doctor's advice. My husband also blamed me for this. I was disheartened and wanted to leave, but my ID was hidden. Previously, my mother-in-law stole items again and caused a dispute. My husband actually wanted a divorce and forced me to compromise. Seeing that I was determined not to return, he turned around and sued for peace. Now that we are living separately, he avoids seeing me and refuses to divorce, but my intention to divorce has long been determined.