Women's Handbook

The work focuses on three urban women with very different personalities: Lin Wan, a professional elite, navigates relationships by "stopping losses in time", but falls into a pull when she meets true love; Su Nian, a freelance writer, seems to be playing in the world, but in fact she is looking for soul resonance in emotions; Although they are defined as "scum" by the world, they stick to the bottom line of not cheating, entangled, or consuming, and make clear choices in the game between desire and sincerity. There are no bloody fights or black-and-white judgments in the book. It focuses on the emotional dilemma of modern women: how to maintain independent personality? How to resist the internal friction of "love brain"? How to face the conflict between desire and sincerity? Through real and vivid stories, it breaks the rule that "good women must be gentle and forbearing" and encourages women to face their needs, refuse emotional kidnapping, and stay sober and decent in love. This is a gentle rebellion against the traditional view of marriage and love: the real "scum" is hypocrisy and deception, rather than active choice; self-love means not wronging yourself or hurting others. I hope every reader can see themselves in other people's stories and gain their own happiness through conscious choices.