Grandma's Girl

This is a memoir written for every ordinary person who grits his teeth and perseveres in life. Born in the 1990s, she was tossed around due to the strict management of the family planning policy due to the prejudice of favoring boys over girls and the traditional idea that a boy must be born to continue the family line. In the end, her grandmother and grandfather used the dim light of kerosene lamps and barren love to support her childhood, which was riddled with illness. The life after a car accident at the age of eight, the return to a strange but familiar family of origin at the age of twelve, the confusion of studying in medical school, the hardship of setting up a stall, the heavy blows of illness and bereavement, the sweetness and embarrassment of marriage... Half a life of ups and downs. , She was struggling with the torment of rheumatoid arthritis and hypothyroidism, crawling in the quagmire of life, but she always remembered her grandma's words: "You must take good care of yourself at all times. It doesn't hurt or itch. Just eat and wear warm clothes!" From a little girl to a mother who takes on family responsibilities, from low self-esteem, helplessness, despair and collapse to reconciliation with the past, this book has no shocking legend, only resilience and affection filled with fireworks. She uses words as salvation, recording the kindness of her grandparents, the hardships in marriage, and the perseverance in illness. She also writes about the strength of every ordinary person to grow up in the wind and rain - to her relatives in heaven, to herself who tries her best, and to everyone who never gives up in life.