At the bachelorette party before my wedding, my fiancé’s ex-girlfriend lost three rounds of Truth or Dare. The first was Truth: she had to reveal the most intimate thing she had ever done with someone of the opposite sex. The second was also Truth: she had to share a secret that no one else in the room knew. The third was Dare: she had to kiss any man there for ten seconds. She turned and kissed my fiancé, Pei Yan. He froze for a moment, then held the back of her head and kissed her back. The room fell silent as everyone looked at me. They thought I’d make a scene. Instead, I was the first to start applauding. “Great. Since things have come to this, why not make her the bride tomorrow?”