People and Things in Life

I grew up in my hometown with my grandparents. There are many people like me here, including several in my family. Only when I grew up did I realize that these are called left-behind children. The mountains contain the most primitive moral standards. As I grow older, I see the girls I grew up with making the impulsive choice to marry early and have children. They are older than me. I am their family member, so I can most directly see what they go through after making their choices. I often feel reluctant for them. I know clearly that all choices are made by themselves, but I still can't help but complain for them, complaining that people always reverse cause and effect and only look at the results without asking the reasons.