My husband and I have been married for three and a half years, but he never refused to hand over his salary. After my persuasion, he finally gave me 40,000 yuan and said he would see the results in a year. After one year, there were only 5,000 yuan left from the 40,000 yuan. He was furious, thinking that I had secretly spent all the money. He said that he was in finance and was very sensitive to the flow of funds and no longer wanted me to manage money. But when I completely stopped taking care of the family's expenses, he regretted it.