For as long as I can remember, I have had a "drop-in" relative in my family. My cousin followed my footsteps from private elementary school to international high school. Regardless of the house or car, whatever I have, I have to prepare a copy for my cousin. My aunt was kind enough to plan my future and persuaded my mother to send me to study abroad. Privately, she encouraged her, "If a girl goes abroad, she will never come back. Give the family property to my son, and you will have hope for your retirement." Later, I watched my aunt being handcuffed and said, "You're welcome, my mother will take care of me in her retirement. You and your family can join the bureau to provide for your retirement."
