Hatsumi, Does Love Hurt?

"Mr. Marriage gives up the true self. Without the true self and faith, the value of our lives will lose its brilliance, and our souls will sink involuntarily. When we live in marriage, which is my life now, we begin to panic. We feel that life is empty, boring, and unbearably lonely. It is not that there is something wrong with the marriage, but that we are the most miserable. The solid foundation of life has turned into quicksand, and we slowly become the puppets of marriage. We may become the shell of life, falling and disappearing in the ordinary and trivial passing away. At that time, our souls are no longer there, we suffer, we sigh, we are still us, but our former selves no longer exist, and our ideals and beliefs , and it will always come to nothing. You know, we will not do this, we will not be consumed by life, we are free people, our souls are free, and our lives are born for love... Marriage cannot trap us, and we will not be trapped by marriage. Trust me, give me some time, and I will give you an answer."