Langhua and Grandma's Beautiful House

About "The Waves"~~ When I was 12 years old and read "The Grimm's Fairy Tales", "The Naughty Little Horse" and "Pipilu", what I saw was the joy and childlike interest of the protagonists in the books. When I was 21 years old, when I read "The Waves", I suddenly felt that my childhood was being watched and understood, as if I was standing in front of a time tunnel. "Waves" has always reflected life. It does not talk about performance rankings and scores, and there is no threat of growing up and picking up garbage if you don't get good grades. It only tells stories about children's innocence, family harmony and family love. Positive energy, warmth and harmony are just like the small daily life happening around you. You can be naughty, occasionally rebellious and unconstrained, but you must be optimistic and kind; you will grow up and become an adult, but you must maintain your innocence and the chivalrous spirit of a young boy; you will suffer many hardships, and one day your edges will be worn away by life, but never give up the courage to face life. The most true thing about "The Waves" is that it never avoids everyone's shortcomings. The grandma is stubborn and favors boys over girls. Ming Lan has sharp edges and corners, not to mention the children's petty problems. Lang Hui is occasionally lazy and addicted to mobile phones. Little Lang Hua is provoked by her grandma to cut the strings of her brother's guzheng... Conflicts are inevitable in every family. Li Zida introduced the characters' motivations very reasonably and with full images, so the contradictions in the book do not seem resentful, and the excessive plot is very natural, giving people a feeling of being unexpected and reasonable. In general, this is a work written from the perspective of readers. Whether from the perspective of grandma, Minglan or the two children, everyone has a different experience. The characters have their own flaws, whether they are stubborn or ignorant, but they are real and pure. It describes a real home, full of love and responsibility. We usually bicker and quarrel, blame each other, and don't understand each other, but when you encounter difficulties and fall into a trough, it is your relatives who are really by your side and never leave you.

About Minglan~~ "The Waves" is a book for children, with a simple and easy-to-understand storyline and distinctive characters. In an era when reading is not easy, Li Zida presents all aspects of the daily life of an ordinary family in front of readers in a eloquent way, attracting the attention of many readers. Minglan is a character I like very much. She is the epitome of thousands of ordinary single mothers in China. She has a tough temperament, "Life kisses me with pain, but I respond with songs." She loves life and is full of longing for tomorrow. She occasionally hesitates. After being fragile and sensitive, she will immediately become strong and cheer up to face the daily necessities of life. Even though he lives in embarrassment, he still tries his best to give his two children the best education. She grew up in a small town family that favored sons over daughters. She was hurt by her parents' consistent preference for sons over daughters. Although she was used to it, she did not agree with it. When her mother tried to inflict the injustice on her children, she resisted again and again, never being filial and winning the best life and future possibilities for her children. Her life is very hard, but it makes Xiao Langhua's life sugary; she has not received a top education, so she firmly supports Lang's guzheng dream. Minglan is contradictory, in fact she is not perfect. On the one hand, she wanted to protect her child's innocence and take good care of her mother, but when life overwhelmed her, the hardship of life, the incomprehension of her relatives, the child's lack of effort... When all the negative emotions hit her like a mountain, her negative emotions would also spurt out. She blamed Lang for not working hard, accused her mother of being partial and favoring boys over girls, and complained about the unfairness of life. What I like most is that she never unconsciously passes negative energy on to her children. I have seen many parents who are struggling in life. They often consciously blame the injustice of fate on their children, as if what caused their difficulties in life is not lack of ability, but the "burden" of their children. Yes, as if the children are a burden and an outlet for their emotions. Children who grow up in such families often have low self-esteem and are sensitive. However, Minglan protected the children's innocence and dreams very well. Under her education, Lang was sensible and progressive, while Langhua was innocent and cute. Under the witness of readers, the two children slowly rose like the morning sun. We see that they are growing up brightly and brilliantly - and this is inseparable from their mother's careful teaching. She is a very intelligent and empathetic woman. At the same time, she is also lonely because she has been carrying the burden alone for too long. Lonely people can always see through life more easily. In general, Minglan is a very pyrotechnic woman. She is tenacious, courageous, intelligent and kind. She uses the flesh and blood of a weak woman to support her children, and she is strong as a mother, which is admirable.

"Langhua and Grandma's Beautiful House" Author Li Zixie Type Short Story Status Serializing Introduction My uncle and aunt immigrated abroad and left behind a villa called "Beautiful House". Grandma and her three grandchildren moved into this beautiful house, starting a new life journey for the four of them. In this fast-paced world of online literature, reading this title gives people a different feeling. A warm current flows into my heart, and I unconsciously sink my heart, thinking of my loved ones, or simply swipe right to leave the interface. When it comes to grandma, I don't know what kind of image everyone has in their minds. In my mind, my grandma is a short old lady who is very agile and knows how to get along. Now my mommy has become a grandma, so I have fallen out of favor ('-ωก̀). My mother hangs around my two nephews all day long, and she doesn't like me to mess with her. I think everyone knows the deeper meaning. If it is just a house, it is just a building, but a house with family and love is the real home. In this book, our little protagonist Langhua is four years old. Let me describe it as our silly and innocent little cutie. It is said that three and four year olds are annoying to people and dogs, but why is little Langhua so cute? I thought about my eldest nephew who is over three years old, and I don't know how many fights I have had with him. There is a passage in the book where grandma said that her dream was to make money, so Langhua poured out the milk from the box and sold the box to grandma for money. She really wanted to be angry but couldn't get angry. Many of the things Langhua wears and plays with are picked up from the trash can by her grandmother, but she says that the trash can is a treasure chest, and she sees the world as so beautiful. Xiaoqi, one of my grandma's nephews in the book, is in primary school. In my opinion, this child is gentle, kind and innocent. After being bullied by your female classmate and crying on your bed at night, does it look weak at first? Later, my uncle asked the teacher to change tables. After changing tables, Xiaoqi did not feel happy. He said, "Lin Yuting is crying." This child must be unbearable and distressed. Lang, the eldest of the three nephews, although he is a bit naughty, he also knows how to protect his younger brothers and sisters, and he is a reliable brother. The grandma in the book is a very warm old lady who picks up rubbish. Do some people think that picking up rubbish is dirty? When I was young, when my grandma was still alive, she would go to the high school next door to pick up leftover steamed buns and other things that the students had eaten. So what? Grandma really loves her three children. It is said that we are close to each other from generation to generation. Who told us that Langhua is grandma's little cotton-padded jacket. There is also the uncle in the book, a delivery boy, who is also the epitome of many people. He works from dawn to dusk, and when he comes home, he faces his family with a smile. Compared with his eldest brother, who went abroad and delivered food, his grandma also said that he was not as good as his eldest uncle. And it can be seen that the family environment has a great influence on people. My uncle will spoil his children like his grandmother, and his love for the three children is more or less unequal. The relationship between the family is very touching. Readers, you like grandma's simplicity and hard work, but you also cannot accept grandma's disapproval of children's ideas. You can feel the unspoken love between your uncle and grandma, and you will also lament that there are students in elementary school who bully other children. This book is very warm and everyday, and can evoke some warmth deep in your heart. Next, the turning point came. I am the youngest in the family. My brothers and sisters are all married and have children. I have taken care of a lot of children. I am a little uncomfortable with the modal particles of Little Langhua in the book. The four-year-old child will end up with modal particles such as ah, ah, etc. At the end of his speech. Although this book is written in the third person, it is still written from Xiao Langhua's point of view, which makes it a bit uncomfortable for adults to read the book. Later, I thought about it carefully and found that Xiao Langhua's character was caused by her living environment. She grew up with her grandma, and her grandma was a backward generation. She must have a different approach to children's education than the young people today. If you think about it this way, you can accept it. In general, this short story is quite good. You can feel the story of Langhua and Grandma.

Should I continue learning to play the guzheng? That is a question. In fact, it is not a small problem. For Lang, this is a choice related to his life. We often say that children should respect their own wishes. However, we all also understand that children may not really know what they want. Limited by social experience and life experience, children often do not know how many hardships are hidden behind a choice. So adults often influence children's choices based on their own experience. In my grandma's opinion, the cost of learning guzheng playing is too high, and Minglan's economic conditions are not optimistic. For a frugal person like my grandma, "seeing a lot of money being spent" is a kind of torture in itself, not to mention that there is no direct return. Moreover, it is foreseeable that this will continue to be the case in a short period of time. So grandma can't understand Minglan's choice for Lang. In her eyes, Lang is just a child. The parents should have the final say on how the child will go in the future. It doesn't matter what Lang thinks, because he doesn't understand. However, in Minglan's view, Lang has very clear ideas about his future and truly loves the art of guzheng. So supporting your children's dreams, isn't that what a mother should do? Maybe Minglan once had her own dream, but it was ruthlessly extinguished by her grandma. So Minglan doesn't want Lang to make the same mistakes as himself. Actually, grandma's view is not entirely wrong. People's ideas do change as they grow up. Lang really loves learning guzheng now, but this does not mean that he can always maintain this love. However, if you don't try it, how will you know what will happen in the future? Life is always full of possibilities. Only by bravely trying can you hope to break through. In the end, grandma and Minglan reconciled. They still retain their opinions, but no longer try to convince the other party - it is impossible to succeed anyway. After all, there is no malice on either side, they just have different ideas. What's more, they have deep feelings for each other that cannot be let go. This may also be the norm among family members. Family members may not be friends or confidants, but they will always be the ones who really think about you.

Spray. . .

Having an old man in the family is like having a treasure. Due to the objective existence of the generation gap, when you are young, you often feel that the thinking of the elderly has lagged behind the times, and is too conservative or even stubborn. Therefore, when doing things, I don't want to ask the old people for advice, and would rather make a mess myself. Indeed, the times are developing too fast. Even well-educated old people have to keep learning if they want to keep up with the times. What's more, most of the people who came from that era did not receive much school education. Being out of touch with the times is inevitable. However, everything remains unchanged. No matter how the external form changes, human nature itself has not changed much. The old man's life experience is precious in this regard. Without grandma's narration of personal experiences, children would not be able to understand the hardships of people in that era. What I read in the book was too limited and felt more like listening to a story than what really happened. It's hard to imagine how the children's great-grandmother could persevere through such a predicament and still remain kind. This kind of reality can touch the hearts of children more than any preaching.

Shock! The White Snake Empress enters square dancing and becomes the lead dancer! But if you think about it carefully, there seems to be nothing wrong with it. Isn't it normal for Bai Suzhen, who only came down from the mountain to fall in love when she was more than a thousand years old, to live an ordinary retired life, doing square dancing and so on, after her children have grown up, she has become the top student in high school, and she no longer has to work in the tower? But where did Xiaoqing go? Could it be that Minglan is actually Xiaoqing? Instead of divorcing her, she poisoned her man to death? Well, my friend Minglan's name is really interesting. However, today's children may not know who Bai Suzhen is, and may not be able to get this point. "The Legend of White Snake" is still a classic. Now that I think about it, their life of singing whenever they disagree is really interesting. If our lives were like this, there should be a lot more joy. It's just a bit difficult for people who are tone-deaf. Moreover, the privilege of having background music when you open your mouth is beyond our reach. But maybe in Minglan's house, such a scenario may not be impossible - Lang Ke can play the guzheng at any time to accompany everyone. Every time Bai Suzhen comes to visit, the whole family sings to welcome her. Lang can also play and sing by himself, which is very funny when you think about it.

Little Langhua is so cute. Children are always innocent. Today's society needs clean and clear innocence so much. Watching the true story of love in the little house depicted with light pen and ink is really touching. Innocence is probably rare. It made me a little envious and at the same time had an indescribable feeling of wanting to escape. Maybe children are too clean. This is the first time I have read a children's literature book. It is Li Zi's book. I feel that Li Zi is really serious about writing books. It makes me feel that they are not characters in the book, but real people. It is so real but clean that I am a little overwhelmed. I like waves and waves. I hope there will be more and more children like this in reality, and at the same time society will become better. I hope people's hearts will no longer be so sinister! Li Zi, Salang Hey! Come on＾0＾~ Look at you finishing it while I was away, princess, and you still open both arms, it's really amazing👍 But remember to pay attention to your health!

There are many stories happening in this beautiful house. Some stories seem to have been experienced by us personally, while others are strange to us but can empathize with them at the same time. I really like those stories that are warm, funny, and arouse childhood memories. However, the parts that impress me most are always the cold, helpless, but objective parts. This may be human nature, tending to remember negative emotions such as fear, sadness, anger, etc., In order to avoid risks that may be encountered in future life. Of course we all still remember the beauty of childhood, but many times it is because of adult life as a comparison. Childhood is also full of fear, sadness and anger. One of the reasons why I like this book is that it does not deliberately avoid this aspect. The book does not deliberately describe the children's family background and growth environment, but in the process of reading, you will naturally discover this information from bits and pieces of details and from some of your own questions. Like all children, these children will encounter obstacles, but each person has different reasons for being unhappy. Fortunately, the reason why childhood is beautiful is often because we can not care about any obstacles at that time. Just like these children, they can make firm choices despite what seems to us to be difficult choices. This may be because they hold on to their love for their families at all times, and based on this, they are willing to make some sacrifices. Perhaps only at this age can we have such pure and beautiful feelings. Another reason why I like this book is that although these angry, entangled, and worrying things will happen, in the end, they will all pass without even causing the slightest harm to the children. Moreover, it is not a fairy-tale happy ending, but a very real, realistic and objective result. For example, the obstacles Lang encountered in learning guzheng came from within the family and stemmed from the fierce conflict of concepts between the two generations. This is almost impossible to reconcile and is simply a matter of different positions. There is no right or wrong, no right answer. But in the end, life is still amidst the ups and downs, and it naturally finds a path. This can give people some strength. Because life is not only about fairy tales, but also about reality. Here is Santa Claus that children love. At the same time, we have also prepared some inspirations for them, some inspirations from which they may be able to draw strength when they feel confused about life.

When I saw the quarrel between grandma and Minglan, I felt that grandma still had that kind of patriarchal mentality in her bones. I really felt that the words she said to Minglan were very hurtful. Minglan is not someone else. She was also born in ten months of pregnancy. It is a piece of flesh that fell from her body. Her current situation is like this. She does not protect her as a mother, and also says that she will not help her brothers with her children. It is indeed very hurtful. Tomorrow, he will find a girlfriend and marry a wife. That is what he has to work hard for. Why must Minglan help? Do you really want Minglan to be a brother-supporting demon? I also asked Xiao Langhua to earn money and give it to Lang Langhua in the future. I can't believe that these words came from the grandmother who usually loves Xiao Langhua. They are all her own children. Why can't they be treated equally? Some families may still have such thoughts. I really hope that one day all these thoughts will disappear.

There is actually a very big difference between love from a generation apart and love from parents. Parents are often responsible for leading the way in life, and they are afraid that their children will lead a path of no return. So many times, you will restrain your children's behavior, and you will also restrain your own behavior in expressing love, in order to maintain authority in front of your children and let your children understand the existence of the bottom line. In addition, because parents always have to deal with all kinds of trivial matters in their children's daily life, it is objectively impossible to always be kind to their children and always like them very much. But grandparents and grandparents don't need to think about these problems or deal with those troubles. Therefore, their love for their children can be expressed without reservation, and they can even be legitimately "spoiled". This feeling of being surrounded by love is something that no one else can give you. So when I saw that grandma finally had the opportunity to reunite with the Langhua brothers and sisters, I still felt quite complicated. On the one hand, I feel that the Langhua brothers and sisters really need this love. I am happy that they can meet their grandma, but also regret that they can only occasionally and secretly reunite with grandma. On the other hand, I also understand Minglan's mood and her desire to no longer have anything to do with Langhua's father. Grandma's open-mindedness is surprising. I really didn't expect that my usually stubborn and rigid grandma would have such an open-minded attitude in this regard. I thought she would be a stronger resistance, the kind who would scold Minglan when Minglan loosened her mind. It is still too difficult for the love, hatred and resentment between the previous generation not to affect the next generation.

Some people say that when you have gone through all the hardships alone, you won't want to be with anyone that much. Maybe so. No one longs for loneliness that much, and no one is as lonely as a dog, but still says how nice it is to be alone.

I believe that children are a mirror of their parents There is a saying that lucky people use their childhood to heal their lives, and unfortunate people use their lives to heal their childhood - this shows how much influence parents have on their children. It is no exaggeration to say that children live in the shadow of their parents throughout their lives. Children are the mirror of their parents in the world. Their outlook, achievements, and personality all reflect their parents' education methods. Children who grow up with parents' love and care, even if their material life is relatively poor, are very rich spiritually. Such children are often confident, independent, and happy; children who grow up under the suppression, neglect, and paranoid control of their parents will still have low self-esteem and insecurity even if they have very good financial capabilities as adults. This negative emotion will not heal slowly over time. It will still be buried in the deepest part of the memory and may be awakened at any time. Psychology divides people's attitudes when facing setbacks into two types: "fixed mindset" and "growth mindset." People with a fixed mindset believe that failure proves that there is a problem with their abilities, while people with a growth mindset believe that failure can bring experience and lessons, which can improve their abilities. In the process of being constantly denied and suppressed, children will continue to solidify their parents' views of themselves and slowly form a fixed mindset. When encountering problems, they will doubt their abilities and have difficulty forming correct cognitions. Fear, low self-esteem, and frustration... Are like dark clouds hanging over their hearts. Before the setbacks come, they will be defeated by themselves. There is a saying that love is the best teacher, followed by shame. I deeply agree, but I don't think so. Shame can indeed promote people's progress, but the negative impact of negative emotions is too tragic, so it is better to fill life with love. After all, the driving force for growth is love and care, not rebuke and blow.

The surest way to get something is to make yourself worthy of it

These children are really innocent and cute. Their nicknames are the names of people close to them. They are not food and cannot be eaten.

My childhood was innocent. When I was a child, I often couldn't distinguish between dreams and reality. I remember one night I dreamed that I went to the supermarket with my mother, and I got lost and couldn't find my mother. After I woke up, I cried and made a fuss at my mother, complaining about her. My mother repeatedly explained to me that it was a dream and not real, but I never believed it. In the next few days, every night when I went to bed, I would tell my mother: "Don't lose me again tonight!" This made my mother dumbfounded. Thinking about it now, I feel that I was really naive.

My childhood was interesting. When I was a child, I was a veritable coward. When I was still in preschool, the teacher took us to play on the slide in the campus. Just as we were having fun, a gust of wind blew over like a devil. I was so scared that I would be blown away by the wind. So I told the teacher that I had a headache, and the teacher quickly called my mother, who took me back. Later, whenever the wind blows, I either have a headache or a stomachache... But I only lied three times, and my mother's "fierce eyes" saw through the lies. The result, ahem, you know →_→

Under the love and care of my parents, my childhood was very happy, but it also left me with the slightest regret. When I was a child, I was particularly reluctant to go to kindergarten. Every morning, when my mother asked me to get up, I would stay in bed deliberately and not get up, or else I would cry loudly. My mother had no choice but to invite the teacher to my home to do some ideological work on me, but she cried even more. My mother and teacher were so angry that they had no choice but to stop going to kindergarten. But now when I see the beautiful kindergarten and the children happily playing and studying there, I feel a little regretful. If I could turn back time, I would definitely cherish the good times of my childhood, leave no regrets, and live a perfect and happy childhood.

My childhood seems to have ended quietly in Counting Stars✨ I have liked watching Ultraman since I was a child, not because they are the embodiment of light and are willing to help others. Rather, they are envious that they can freely travel through the universe and face the stars at close range. I like to look at the stars. They twinkle and shine, illuminating all my fantasies. While other children were still playing with sand and mud, I was happily playing with the astronaut model that I had begged my mother to buy for many days, telling all kinds of little secrets and whispers to it. I dreamed of being an astronaut, but in the end I failed to pass the air recruitment physical examination Everything is a small regret. Fortunately, my childhood was still beautiful, simple and full of vitality!

Come give the waves a kiss and a hug and lift them high

Why is it embarrassing to perform on the streets? Isn't this the reward you get for your own labor? This is very good.

My childhood was related to my grandparents' cousin, and also to the cat my grandmother raised. I often teased the slightly obese female cat. She often slithered under the bed and refused to move, and only came out when eating. She was very big, and my grandparents raised her for a long time. She became one of my grandparents' children, but then she disappeared and I slowly grew up. I didn't have any toys at that time. The only thing I had was a plastic little man I bought for Children's Day with 70 cents. I remember that the little man looked like he was wearing a helmet and a yellow uniform. When I was young, there were no children in the neighborhood, so it entrusted me with my happiness. I defined many identities for it. It is either a captain or a giant, and sometimes it also plays the role of evil. Naturally, I am the so-called "Superman". I also have a box of comics, most of which were given to me by my cousin, and a few of which I begged my mother to buy because of my good test scores. I put them in a cardboard box and put them in it every time I read them. When the box was full, I wrapped it with tape, hoping that one day I would find it in a forgotten corner. Just two days ago when I moved, I saw that cardboard box again. It was inside a pile of debris. I opened it and remembered the care I took when saving it at that time. It was the childishness and innocence of an eight or nine-year-old child, and it was also his childhood...

As for the origin of the little cute little Langhua Baby, please read the modern urban novel Zheng Ai Yi Xin Ren which the author is serializing. Due to everyone's love, support and encouragement, the author resolutely started writing an exclusive collection of short stories about the little Langhua Baby, so that our tired hearts can relax while reading. Reminiscent of wonderful childhood fun stories! Thank you to the author for your hard work! Take care of yourself! Looking forward to the day when you become a god! ! ! At the same time, I also hope that book friends who have read this book can support the author's two serialized novels, Zheng Ai Yi Xin Ren Chang Princess, for sparing her life and thanking everyone! ! !

It is said that those who are close to red are red and those who are close to ink are dark. Children stay with their parents every day, so you can imagine the impact. For example, my mother doesn't like to eat green peppers, so she naturally doesn't cook dishes with green peppers, and she will clearly express her dislike when talking about green peppers. Then I was naturally affected when I was a child, and I didn't like green peppers from the bottom of my heart. For example, when I was very young, my parents would take me with them when they went out to play cards and let me stay by the side. Then I would get used to it just by watching. For example, my father has asked me to protect my eyes and sit upright since I was a child, so I have never been nearsighted. ... There are many examples. In short, the influence of parents on their children is generally unparalleled. There are subtle influences, good and bad, and there are also mandatory requirements to influence children. So if we grow up and have children, as parents, we must set a good example so that our children can have a happy childhood and a good family education. What you do every day, your children see it and remember it in their hearts~

Parents have a great influence on their children, especially when they are young. As the saying goes, "Parents are children's best teachers." For children in their original family, every word and deed of their parents can affect their children now and in the future. For children, parents are the best role models, and they will subconsciously imitate their parents' behavior. As children become more mature, this influence will be deepened.                                                                                                                                                                   Teaching by example is greater than words and deeds. Compared with the expectations for their children, what parents themselves do is often more important!

During my childhood, I lived in a large courtyard, of course it was either a courtyard house like in Beijing, or an ordinary small courtyard, two or three stories high, with about 10 or nearly 20 households. Because the residents are generally working people, the children are basically free-range, so they have more time to play, and there are also many companions of the right age, about seven or eight. At that time, there were relatively few entertainment facilities and not much to play with. You can play with an origami board or peek-a-boo for a long time.

Mencius said: Human beings are inherently good by nature. People are completely blank about the world when they are born, and their understanding of the world is first learned from their parents. Parents can be said to be a child's first teacher or even a lifelong teacher, but parents' education is not like a teacher pointing at the blackboard to teach you how to read and write in the classroom, but should be taught by words and deeds. Parents' daily behaviors have a subtle influence on their children. Many parents, while scrolling through spam messages on their mobile phones, demand that their children can be admitted to key universities so that they can shine. Little did they know that this was just a fire set by the state officials. A kind, loving, and kind family atmosphere often breeds excellent flowers!

Newton: If I have seen further, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants. I think parents are the giants of their children. Although they cannot determine the upper limit of their children, they establish the lower limit of their children, and their influence is all-round.

My childhood was a wonderful time playing with my cousins. We helped adults pass oranges to the boxes during the autumn harvest. We picked peaches together in the peach orchard and inspected them. We waited for the returning fishing boats at the beach. A small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for two days is inevitable. It is normal to cry one moment and laugh the next.

Parents are too strong for their children in terms of size and strength, so children are born to worship their parents. Children will subconsciously imitate their words and deeds. Many so-called natures are developed during this period of time when things are so unknown. If children are a building, then the parents' initial words and deeds are the foundation.