I Really Don't Want to Be the Widow of My Wife

I think this topic is quite interesting, so I'll join in the fun. ① In fact, excluding the royal family, ancient house fights were not as powerful and frequent as shown in TV dramas: In ancient times, except for the braid court favored by female fans, polygamy and multiple concubines were practiced most of the time. Nowadays, in order to create conflicts, many novels or TV dramas always like to make the rivalry between wives and concubines very intense. But in fact, if we look at the real novels written by the ancients, we will find that house fights are basically between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and brothers (wives). For example, "A Dream of Red Mansions", "Golden x Plum" or "Three Words and Two Patterns". The conflict between wives and concubines is not much discussed Because wives and concubines are actually compared to today's wives and game consoles. Men can have wives and game consoles. But if the wife smashes the game console, is it really true that she beats her or even divorces her in anger because of a game console? ——At least, there are very few such ancient people. I remember that my great-grandmother directly beat and killed a concubine of my great-great-grandfather. The reason was: disrespect for the eldest family. Yes, you don't need to look for evidence of murder like you do in palace dramas and house dramas. I watched my husband go on business in the county town, and then dozens of strong men from my parents' family came, beat him to death and buried him. My great-grandfather knew about it, and he was sulky for a month before he paid attention to her. Well, it's that simple. The county government didn't even pay attention to it, and the concubine's family just gave it to a cow. Some people say that human nature is greedy for profit, but in fact, human nature is more afraid of death. My concubine is not stupid. She died accidentally in a fight. Why fight? Even if we win the fight and kill the old house, will my husband or her husband's family support a "little maid" to inherit the family property? ②Why can we fall in love with each other if we have a harem? Because, men's status is far above women. Because of the descriptions in various costume dramas and modern martial arts novels, many people feel that although men and women in ancient times were not equal, they were similar to a certain extent. In addition, a large number of marketing accounts hype "ancient monogamy", "there is no shame in remarrying after divorce in the Tang Dynasty", "revealing the secret: from palace maid to queen" and other "ancient cases" that cater to modern Weibo feminist ideas. This creates the illusion that ancient men support women's rights just as much as modern men, and are even more open-minded than modern men. But if you have a little bit of brain, you only need to think about three questions: ① How many queens and how many male emperors were there in ancient China? ②How many rich women and how many rich men were there in ancient China? ③How many female saints and male saints were there in ancient China? If women are greatly lagging behind another group in terms of rights, capital, and cultural status. Does anyone really believe that the ancients were more feminist? In fact, unless the power of the wife's family can be equal to or even exceed that of the husband's family. Otherwise, in ancient times, the man's thoughts directly determined the direction of the family. In "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia He likes to play the little wife, and then asks Mrs. Xing (wife) to be a matchmaker for him. But Jia Zheng, dare to ask Mrs. Wang to go? Why is it different? It's not because the wife's family has different power. So, in the final analysis, if the wife's family does not have enough family background. If you want to have the right to talk to a man at home, it can only be a dream. If a man requires his wife and concubines to love each other, then they must pretend to love each other even if they are pretending. Otherwise, you can ask Liu Bei and Su Dongpo what they would do. ③ Why is it easy for time travelers to fall in love with each other when they have a harem? Because it is very simple, because if wives and concubines are really treated equally, then it is "harming wives and benefiting concubines". What was harmed was the wife's interests, and the concubine gained benefits that exceeded her own status. If the wife has no objection, then the concubine will not have any objection. Short-term love can be achieved. Because even if greed and desire can break down family education, social customs, ethnic rules and ancestral precepts, and the fear of death, it will take time. Of course, as a desire animal, it is normal to only care about the present and the long-awaited Shu. So if you want a bowl of water to be balanced, there will still be fights between pots and bowls later. What to do in this situation? Pretending to be deaf and dumb is the simplest method and is a method favored by both ancient and modern people. I don't care what you (wives, concubines or spare parts) think, but please show love to each other in front of me (ancient man, modern goddess). Otherwise, I will think that you have no virtue or are not a gentleman enough, and I will kick you out directly. Obviously, as long as you show a little bit of this meaning. Whether it's a wife, a concubine, or a dog licker, they all know what to do. What is a little more complicated is separation in different places. This "different place" does not only refer to the separation of space, but also the separation of rights and status. The former is that the ancients kept an outside house. If you can't see the big house, you won't have so many beeps, right? For the latter, you can refer to "Hui Ming" written by Yue x. The eldest wife's son inherits the king's title, the second wife's son inherits the duke, and the third wife inherits the family business... Everyone has equal rights and status, and the division is clear and fair. There is no need to fight anymore - everything that can be fought is divided. Should Yang Ling's penis be divided equally? What's even more powerful is to take precautions and only look for troubles in women who are aloof from the world or who adhere to female virtues and are gentle and elegant. Dig out the signs of back-house fighting from the ideological root. Combined with the first two methods, it is very simple to achieve harmony in the harem. This is also the method currently used by most time travellers to open a harmonious harem. ④Why do women feel that they cannot love each other if they have a harem? Because human beings like to be "exclusive". In ancient times, men liked to keep concubines, and in modern times, goddesses like to "raise babies." In the final analysis, there is no difference in desire between men and women. Everyone likes to get everything they like. So it is actually impossible or difficult to achieve complete love for each other in a harem. Because as long as there is no way to monopolize it, it is inevitable for women (men) to feel resentful. However, some female readers have mistaken a key point: the harem is not for the purpose of loving each other, but just for the hope of loving each other. To put it simply, even if you don't love each other so much, the harem should still be opened. It's like the goddess hopes that the spare tires can get along well and work together to contribute money and effort, but even if the spare tires work hard, they still have to find the spare tire that should be found. Because looking for a spare tire is mainly for money, penis and vanity. Therefore, in this case, the male video is unfolded from the perspective of the male protagonist, as long as the wives and concubines are shown to be in love with each other. What happens in private, it doesn't matter, as long as they are not discovered, they are in love with each other. And if we look at the female videos carefully, it is estimated that most of the harems are killed in private.         ：，， ——This also perfectly fits the views of ancient men and modern goddesses, so human beings have never changed.

The book is a good book, but the main character keeps using modern names. It doesn't feel immersive at all. I can't stand it.

By the way, I checked today and found out that the story about Princess Gaoyang is completely fake history. The Old Tang Book and Taiping Yulan, two Five Dynasties Books, only mention Gaoyang's rebellion and nothing else. The earliest book about the history of Gaoyang's obscenity was the New Book of Tang Dynasty written by Song Renzong, and there was no source for it. It can be seen that the materials cited are probably Japanese novels or unofficial histories. In the case of Princess Gaoyang's obscene history, there are bugs in many incidents.

What was the concept of improving papermaking in ancient times? The author just found anyone to cooperate with and got a 50-50 split. Brother is also drunk.

Can you please stop calling me Young Master and Young Master? This is Tang! Little Langjun, ah Lang, doesn't it smell good? Fang Er, call him Fang Jia Erlang!

Come on, author, but I sincerely hope this book has a single female protagonist.

My first reaction when writing about Fang Yiai was the original "Training in the Early Tang Dynasty", but I can't see it anymore 😅

It's a well-written farming article, and it's quite interesting. If Chen Chen is changed to Fang Yiai, it will be more immersive and consistent with the author's introduction and title.

Many people discuss the female protagonist, and a large number of readers are lost because of this. In fact, in ancient times, it was unreasonable to have a single female protagonist, so there will be no stud later, but there will not be many female protagonists. I can't handle more, so I will just write that there will be power, money, and a wife. This is determined at the beginning of the outline. , Since so many people are discussing the issue of female protagonists, you might as well vote and write down whether you think we need a single female protagonist or two female protagonists. I will see how the brothers choose. I will make a statistics. This book will basically write about 2 million words. It will be a long time. Please don't give up easily 🌹🌹

Why did you suddenly invest so much and still want to earn a little more? I lost a lot.

I'm still timid about traveling through ancient times, but like the harem stream! Let the author see how many people like harem flow. Anyway, I'm a stallionist

I suggest the author check the history.

It's quite rare to write about the legacy of a house. Come on, author, I'm following you.

It is impractical to separate papermaking from craftsmen households.

Is it always Chen Shen from behind? Not Fang Er? Has the name been changed?

The first few names are too confusing, they are all called Fang Ercuo

Single heroine, two heroines! I've given up on the trap. I just wrote about two women. What's so good about it? In ancient times, monogamy was still followed and there was no sense of the times. Moreover, in today's society, there is only one capable person? The person who writes about it will not be a hegemon at all. The pursuit of the upper class is nothing more than money, power, and desire. They are indispensable. This is a prerequisite for ambitious people, otherwise it will become a pure love novel.

Sugar came out in the first few chapters, but now it doesn't.

Apart from anything else, I can't even figure out the name.

I feel like a time traveler, if I don't cause trouble, I'm not a time traveler. In ancient times, faith and righteousness were more important than money, and reputation was more important than life. Using money to create patterns is only suitable for modern times

Written as a saint, it's a pity that I'm only a mortal

It's too much. The stability of the Tang Dynasty is not stable. Neither the Li family nor his son are as worried as the protagonist. One moment, Sankey, another potato, another moment it rains to repair the reservoir. Li Er ignored the letter, and the protagonist just licked the dog's shit and busied himself around. Those who knew it thought you were conquering the world for the Li family, and those who didn't knew thought that the world's surname was Fang. It was like a savior.

Could the author be more serious? I can't stand it anymore when I read Chapter 2. First, Goguryeo actually has a relationship with South Korea, and then the Tang Dynasty used silver coins to trade. Come on, in ancient China, gold and copper coins were traded before the Song Dynasty. Gold is the superior currency, and copper coins are the inferior currency. Whether the writing is good or bad is one thing, but technical knowledge errors are another matter. At least check it before writing.

This can be regarded as a novel about not being able to do anything and not daring to do anything in the Tang Dynasty. Every time the protagonist wants to do something beneficial. The author can go through all kinds of imaginary reasons, but in the end he does nothing. Furthermore, the protagonist can't remember anything and can't think of anything. The frustrated protagonist.

Fang Yiai, starting from the time when he was quartered by five horses by Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty 🤓

Is Princess Yuzhang appearing today the heroine?

It's well written, I really like it. Besides farming, I also change the world!

I'm curious, who is the heroine? 🙂