
I Really Don't Want to Be Fang Yiai
我真不想当房遗爱
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- 722k Words
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- Historical
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- Jin-Sui-Tang Dynasties
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- 4y ago
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- Qidian
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Why do you need to love each other to have a harem?
I think this topic is quite interesting, so I'll join in the fun. ① In fact, excluding the royal family, ancient house fights were not as powerful and frequent as shown in TV dramas: In ancient times, except for the braid court favored by female fans, polygamy and multiple concubines were practiced most of the time. Nowadays, in order to create conflicts, many novels or TV dramas always like to make the rivalry between wives and concubines very intense. But in fact, if we look at the real novels written by the ancients, we will find that house fights are basically between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and brothers (wives). For example, "A Dream of Red Mansions", "Golden x Plum" or "Three Words and Two Patterns". The conflict between wives and concubines is not much discussed Because wives and concubines are actually compared to today's wives and game consoles. Men can have wives and game consoles. But if the wife smashes the game console, is it really true that she beats her or even divorces her in anger because of a game console? ——At least, there are very few such ancient people. I remember that my great-grandmother directly beat and killed a concubine of my great-great-grandfather. The reason was: disrespect for the eldest family. Yes, you don't need to look for evidence of murder like you do in palace dramas and house dramas. I watched my husband go on business in the county town, and then dozens of strong men from my parents' family came, beat him to death and buried him. My great-grandfather knew about it, and he was sulky for a month before he paid attention to her. Well, it's that simple. The county government didn't even pay attention to it, and the concubine's family just gave it to a cow. Some people say that human nature is greedy for profit, but in fact, human nature is more afraid of death. My concubine is not stupid. She died accidentally in a fight. Why fight? Even if we win the fight and kill the old house, will my husband or her husband's family support a "little maid" to inherit the family property? ②Why can we fall in love with each other if we have a harem? Because, men's status is far above women. Because of the descriptions in various costume dramas and modern martial arts novels, many people feel that although men and women in ancient times were not equal, they were similar to a certain extent. In addition, a large number of marketing accounts hype "ancient monogamy", "there is no shame in remarrying after divorce in the Tang Dynasty", "revealing the secret: from palace maid to queen" and other "ancient cases" that cater to modern Weibo feminist ideas. This creates the illusion that ancient men support women's rights just as much as modern men, and are even more open-minded than modern men. But if you have a little bit of brain, you only need to think about three questions: ① How many queens and how many male emperors were there in ancient China? ②How many rich women and how many rich men were there in ancient China? ③How many female saints and male saints were there in ancient China? If women are greatly lagging behind another group in terms of rights, capital, and cultural status. Does anyone really believe that the ancients were more feminist? In fact, unless the power of the wife's family can be equal to or even exceed that of the husband's family. Otherwise, in ancient times, the man's thoughts directly determined the direction of the family. In "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia He likes to play the little wife, and then asks Mrs. Xing (wife) to be a matchmaker for him. But Jia Zheng, dare to ask Mrs. Wang to go? Why is it different? It's not because the wife's family has different power. So, in the final analysis, if the wife's family does not have enough family background. If you want to have the right to talk to a man at home, it can only be a dream. If a man requires his wife and concubines to love each other, then they must pretend to love each other even if they are pretending. Otherwise, you can ask Liu Bei and Su Dongpo what they would do. ③ Why is it easy for time travelers to fall in love with each other when they have a harem? Because it is very simple, because if wives and concubines are really treated equally, then it is "harming wives and benefiting concubines". What was harmed was the wife's interests, and the concubine gained benefits that exceeded her own status. If the wife has no objection, then the concubine will not have any objection. Short-term love can be achieved. Because even if greed and desire can break down family education, social customs, ethnic rules and ancestral precepts, and the fear of death, it will take time. Of course, as a desire animal, it is normal to only care about the present and the long-awaited Shu. So if you want a bowl of water to be balanced, there will still be fights between pots and bowls later. What to do in this situation? Pretending to be deaf and dumb is the simplest method and is a method favored by both ancient and modern people. I don't care what you (wives, concubines or spare parts) think, but please show love to each other in front of me (ancient man, modern goddess). Otherwise, I will think that you have no virtue or are not a gentleman enough, and I will kick you out directly. Obviously, as long as you show a little bit of this meaning. Whether it's a wife, a concubine, or a dog licker, they all know what to do. What is a little more complicated is separation in different places. This "different place" does not only refer to the separation of space, but also the separation of rights and status. The former is that the ancients kept an outside house. If you can't see the big house, you won't have so many beeps, right? For the latter, you can refer to "Hui Ming" written by Yue x. The eldest wife's son inherits the king's title, the second wife's son inherits the duke, and the third wife inherits the family business... Everyone has equal rights and status, and the division is clear and fair. There is no need to fight anymore - everything that can be fought is divided. Should Yang Ling's penis be divided equally? What's even more powerful is to take precautions and only look for troubles in women who are aloof from the world or who adhere to female virtues and are gentle and elegant. Dig out the signs of back-house fighting from the ideological root. Combined with the first two methods, it is very simple to achieve harmony in the harem. This is also the method currently used by most time travellers to open a harmonious harem. ④Why do women feel that they cannot love each other if they have a harem? Because human beings like to be "exclusive". In ancient times, men liked to keep concubines, and in modern times, goddesses like to "raise babies." In the final analysis, there is no difference in desire between men and women. Everyone likes to get everything they like. So it is actually impossible or difficult to achieve complete love for each other in a harem. Because as long as there is no way to monopolize it, it is inevitable for women (men) to feel resentful. However, some female readers have mistaken a key point: the harem is not for the purpose of loving each other, but just for the hope of loving each other. To put it simply, even if you don't love each other so much, the harem should still be opened. It's like the goddess hopes that the spare tires can get along well and work together to contribute money and effort, but even if the spare tires work hard, they still have to find the spare tire that should be found. Because looking for a spare tire is mainly for money, penis and vanity. Therefore, in this case, the male video is unfolded from the perspective of the male protagonist, as long as the wives and concubines are shown to be in love with each other. What happens in private, it doesn't matter, as long as they are not discovered, they are in love with each other. And if we look at the female videos carefully, it is estimated that most of the harems are killed in private. :,, ——This also perfectly fits the views of ancient men and modern goddesses, so human beings have never changed.
The book is a good book, but the main character keeps using modern names. It doesn't feel immersive at all. I can't stand it.
By the way, I checked today and found out that the story about Princess Gaoyang is completely fake history. The Old Tang Book and Taiping Yulan, two Five Dynasties Books, only mention Gaoyang's rebellion and nothing else. The earliest book about the history of Gaoyang's obscenity was the New Book of Tang Dynasty written by Song Renzong, and there was no source for it. It can be seen that the materials cited are probably Japanese novels or unofficial histories. In the case of Princess Gaoyang's obscene history, there are bugs in many incidents.
What was the concept of improving papermaking in ancient times? The author just found anyone to cooperate with and got a 50-50 split. Brother is also drunk.
My first reaction when writing about Fang Yiai was the original "Training in the Early Tang Dynasty", but I can't see it anymore 😅
Can you please stop calling me Young Master and Young Master? This is Tang! Little Langjun, ah Lang, doesn't it smell good? Fang Er, call him Fang Jia Erlang!
Come on, author, but I sincerely hope this book has a single female protagonist.
Many people discuss the female protagonist, and a large number of readers are lost because of this. In fact, in ancient times, it was unreasonable to have a single female protagonist, so there will be no stud later, but there will not be many female protagonists. I can't handle more, so I will just write that there will be power, money, and a wife. This is determined at the beginning of the outline. , Since so many people are discussing the issue of female protagonists, you might as well vote and write down whether you think we need a single female protagonist or two female protagonists. I will see how the brothers choose. I will make a statistics. This book will basically write about 2 million words. It will be a long time. Please don't give up easily 🌹🌹
It's a well-written farming article, and it's quite interesting. If Chen Chen is changed to Fang Yiai, it will be more immersive and consistent with the author's introduction and title.
I'm still timid about traveling through ancient times, but like the harem stream! Let the author see how many people like harem flow. Anyway, I'm a stallionist