Kissing the Lord's Hairpin

There are many historical romance stories that are based on details. This is a kind of literary fiction. Since ancient times, there have been many descriptions in novels and even history books. For example, how many stories about the Three Sovereigns and Five Emperors can be proved by archeology? Nuwa's patching up of the sky and Jingwei's patching up of the sea are even more myths and legends. However, when talking about the origin of mankind, these stories can often be narrated as history, and many of them have religious implications. The problem Xie Yan faced was that the two armies were in a stalemate, and no one could think of a clever way to defeat the enemy. At this time, Xie Yan was at a loss what to do. What he was most worried about was that Fu Jian would strike first and the people would suffer misfortune. Therefore, as the young heroine Hagi Musang who traveled through time and space, she offered her suggestions and advice, which impressed Xie Yan. It was really not easy for a teenage girl to be so smart. I never thought that this girl turned out to be a scholar who had read the Twenty-Four Histories thoroughly. She knew the historical facts very well and knew what the outcome of the historical process would be. She just made up what appeared in the history books to show off in front of Xie Yan. This literary treatment is the so-called "time travel drama" and is very popular among young people.

Essays of "Kinjunji" (53): The state has national laws, and every family has its own rules. This is the fine tradition of the Chinese nation. Since ancient times, if a subordinate commits treason and commits rebellion against his superiors, he must be punished according to the family law. The methods used are many and cruel, and may even lead to death. There is no need for a yamen to review the case. Many of these reasons often become excuses for violence and revenge. Nowadays, according to the law, this kind of domestic violence is considered domestic violence, and you can call the police and call 110. However, when traditional family law has evolved into tutoring, will it be effective to just resort to words and reprimand? In recent years, the media has repeatedly exposed cases of school teachers corporally punishing students to the point of jumping off buildings. Obviously, corporal punishment is ineffective and can cost lives. Do teachers have the right to corporally punish students? Who granted the authority? Do business owners dare to corporally punish their employees? Why not? After all, the ultimate goal of national laws and family rules is to change people's bad habits. If you develop good habits, you can naturally educate people with just your words. We often hear people say that in advanced foreign countries, people are very civilized in their words and deeds. This is actually the law that restricts people's behavior, and it becomes a habit as time goes by. Only in a barbaric country, an ignorant family, and an incompetent school would corporal punishment be used as a necessary means of punishment.

Essay of "Kin Jun Jie" (52): Women are indeed different from men. Since ancient times, women have only had their husbands and children in their eyes, and have never thought about doing anything for themselves. Her goal in life is to live a comfortable and happy life every day. It's like today's women, who want to marry a good man, have a child, and have a big career, and regard themselves as omnipotent gods. With this in mind, the divorce rate is naturally increasing year by year. People may even stop having children and would rather fight for their careers for the rest of their lives. But no matter how big a woman's heart is, she cannot avoid the historical fact that this is a man's world, and women will always be accessories to the man's world. If we recognize this fact, restrain our arrogance, and focus on family building, I believe this social structure will be more stable. If you look at advanced foreign countries, in societies where women are full-time housewives, the divorce rate is generally very low. The ancients said this long ago, and it has been practiced for thousands of years. The status of a housewife plays an important role in the family and is the guarantee of a happy family. This position, whether ancient or modern, will be fought for. In ancient times, there were concubines and maids vying for the top spot, but today people have mistresses and mistresses vying for the top spot, and this has never stopped.

Essay of "Kin Jun Jia" (51): Women and men are two different species. Women value immediate personal feelings, so they are particularly sensitive to all things close to them. They even have an innate intuition that can penetrate into a man's heart. However, before becoming a woman, the girlhood was just the opposite. Her feelings were slow. In her world, everything was beautiful, everyone was kind, and she was innocently full of fantasies about the relationship between men and women. The so-called first love is just the beginning of vulgarity. As she grows older and has more experience, the young and innocent girl gradually turns into a sophisticated woman, snobbish and cunning. This is the case for collector Zheng. Her experience can be said to represent the mental journey of all women. The tragedy of a woman is often like this. The femininity full of youthful vitality in her girlhood is gone in her old age! Sometimes I look through old magazine photos and compare their appearance when they were young and how they looked in their old age, which is often embarrassing.

Essay on "Kindness to the Lord" (50): The highest ideal of a maid in a married woman's house is to become a wife or concubine, and success or failure depends on seizing the opportunity. Zangjun once had a maid named Youtao. She almost achieved success, but she didn't grasp the opportunity well. As a result, she failed and lost her life. This is like purchasing real estate. If you make a decisive move at the right time, at the right price, and in the right location, you will definitely make a profit without losing money, and your assets will increase significantly. If you choose the wrong time, the wrong price, and the wrong location, you will be lucky to not lose money. When a Youtao left and a Cuihuan came, the fate was completely different. This is because Cuihuan was very precise in picking up opportunities, which requires courage and determination! There are many opportunities for success in life, and everyone has encountered them more or less. Some people seize the opportunities, while others give up. This often depends on a person's character. Some people act decisively, while others act coyly. Decisive people think about success and move forward without hesitation; coquettish people are afraid of wolves and tigers behind, and think about what will happen if they fail. If you do everything, you have the possibility of success; if you don't do it, you will definitely fail!

"Dear Prince" (13): When I was in junior high school, I watched Dream of Red Mansions, but the teacher found out about it and severely criticized it. Fortunately, I didn't go online and escaped. There is a plot in Dream of Red Mansions that left the deepest impression on me, that is the scene where Jia Baoyu and Xi Ren have an affair. When Xiren changed Baoyu's clothes, he found something sticky remaining on his pants, so he asked shyly, where did this stuff come from? I didn't understand it at the time, what does "there" mean? Baoyu took advantage of the situation and had a fight with Xiren. From then on, Xiren became more devoted to Baoyu. At such a young age, how could this Xiren know that sticky things could flow out of "there"? Obviously, the pleasure between men and women is a kind of instinct, which can only be mastered if you don't learn it. The maid relies on her master for her own safety and cannot help herself. Ruan, the biological mother of the young heroine Hagi Niang, found out that her husband had put the maid on the bed without telling her. Naturally, she felt resentful in her heart. Out of self-defense, she had to isolate the maid. But how did Ruan find out? The collector is secretive and does not dare to make it public, which shows that he has taboos. At least he does not dare to break up with his wife. It stands to reason that Mrs. Zheng was pregnant and living in Xiyuan. She could not have gone to the main house to check the situation for no reason. Someone must have deliberately leaked the news to her, with the purpose of turning the couple against each other. And this troublemaker must have been instigated by others, and the manipulator behind it was the one who really benefited. Who is it?

## Marriage has been a bargaining chip for the exchange of interests since ancient times. Between countries, a marriage can resolve the threat of war; an emperor can win people's hearts by marrying a princess; among ordinary people, a marriage can reallocate assets. A free marriage in which you truly love each other does not involve any worldly transactions. However, there are few successful cases of this kind of marriage, and current social customs do not allow complete freedom of love. Falling in love means talking about conditions, and the spiritual element of love has completely disappeared. Is this inevitable for social development? In our generation, there are still people who fall in love and get married purely out of love for the person themselves. External possessions are not the focus of consideration. Maybe it was because we were all poor at that time. There was no obvious difference between the rich and the poor. However, a person's spiritual temperament is related to the environment in which he lives. The gentleness and elegance of his speech and behavior will definitely make you feel a sense of nobility coming towards you, making you feel humble. You will make a choice unintentionally, and he (she) is your future. The young heroine Haginiang subconsciously chose Xie Yan, which was an expression of pure emotion without any worldly considerations. Now, out of a woman's instinct, the mistress deliberately arranged for her nephew, niece and brother to stay with her for a few days in order to gain Hagi Niang's favor with Zheng Yu. She also arranged for Zheng Yan to gossip in front of the young heroine, intentionally or unintentionally revealing that Xie Yan would become the consort, completely breaking Hagi Niang's mind. Zheng's scheming is a kind of jealousy that women can't suppress because they feel superior. They really can't see the good in others. She used this daughter who was not her own as a bargaining chip in marriage to control the entire family.

Never mess with a scheming girl. Since ancient times, anyone can be offended, but women must not be offended. As the saying goes, women are more cruel than men. Hagi-niang is very young and understands this truth very well. Therefore, in front of the mistress, the appearance of obedience is not deliberately put on, but a natural expression. Without the intuition of the opponent, it is impossible to achieve such a seamless performance. The mistress Zheng has the dignity of a mature beauty. Anyone who sees her will involuntarily feel a sense of intimacy with her. In real society, such women are the ones to be wary of the most. The more complimentary, caring, and kind the words come out of her mouth, the more often they end up being cheated. In the end, you don't even know how you fell into the trap. But the young heroine Hagi Musume is also a scheming girl. It's just that her scheming has more positive energy, while Zheng's has more negative energy. When these two energies are mixed together, all kinds of conspiracy stories will inevitably emerge. It is hard to say who will win.

Monogamy is a symbol of human civilization. Since ancient times, the original relationship between human beings was not monogamous, polygamous, or polyandry, depending on who controlled the social group. In a patriarchal society, polygamy seems natural. However, as far as women are concerned, natural jealousy will inevitably lead to hatred between wives and concubines. No woman is willing to be a concubine and be manipulated by others. This is not just a matter of self-esteem, but a matter of power. The young heroine Hagi-niang loves Xie Yan infinitely deep in her heart, just because even if Xie Yan also loves her, the end result is just taking a concubine. This is difficult for the proud Hagi-niang to be convinced. She must leave Xie Yan as soon as possible, otherwise, she will be unable to control herself over time and will inevitably do things that go against her own integrity. During the ** period, our family moved into a new urban village. At the same time, a family who moved there actually had three wives. The young wife followed them and lived on the ground floor of Gate No. 1. At that time, I was very confused, how could a man have three wives? The new society will never allow this! Later, I heard someone say that this family moved from Shanghai (Puxi), and that the wife she wanted before liberation was criticized and driven to the countryside to escape the limelight. Under the current situation, his family kept a very low profile and rarely interacted with others. The neighbors looked at him strangely. Now, how showy it is! Men all want to have more women, it depends on whether you have the courage and money!

A girl who has just begun to have love has no understanding of the relationship between men and women. It is just a vague feeling. She is both curious and afraid, and mixed with inexplicable expectations. Therefore, when the beautiful Xie Yan and the young heroine Hagi Musang embraced each other and slept together, she had expectations, but this expectation was restrained by fear. She was imagining what the consequences would be if it really happened... As a result, many tragedies that should not happen occurred in life. When I was in elementary school, I heard that a twelve-year-old girl on Beimen Street was pregnant. The man was her classmate of the same age. At that time, it was spread as a strange news in the city, but I don't know how it was dealt with later. In middle school, a female classmate climbed over the roof, got into the house next door, and had sex with a man from her father's generation. She was discovered by the man's wife, which caused a sensation. The female classmate was too shameless to come back to class and was transferred to Tang Town. Because we are an art class, there are many people who are envious, jealous, and hateful, so the reputation of "corruption class" comes out. So, girls' tutoring is particularly important. As the old saying goes, men can live in poverty and women can live in wealth. The purpose of raising a woman to be rich is to cultivate a sense of nobility from an early age, not to be afraid of power, not to love money, not to be worldly, and the core is self-respect. Where does self-respect come from? Everything is low-grade, but reading is high-grade!