Differential Theorem of Married Life

I really want to ask about the character Zhi Qiu, the pimp! I have a really good relationship with my first love. I know everything and help with everything. I didn't agree to pursue my first love back then, but now I'm divorced. There's no good, so I'm going to have to look back. ⁽˙³˙⁾◟(๑•́ ₃ •̀๑)◞⁽˙³˙⁾ My first love is not a simple person. The heroine deserves better👌The author writes really well.

Xu is indeed indulging Hu. It is conceivable that Xu is the giver in the relationship between the two parties. Maybe it is because he does not go out to work and does not have social recognition, but in front of Hu, he does not have the confidence given by society; maybe it is the cowardice of the original family, who will always be the party responsible for the problem but dare not and cannot get out of the predicament. Hu seems to be a native The savior of the ecological family does not have the confidence given by the family in front of Hu; perhaps it is more that Xu herself has problems. She knows clearly that there is no one in the original family who can stand up and support her, but she is unwilling to stand up. Even if she takes out the money, she will use Hu's name, hoping that Hu will support her and make Hu look good. She is obviously educated and has a skill, but she has not actively asked to join the society. She has no colleagues or friends. She can live like this for so many years. It can only be said that people who are too arrogant do not care about many things and have no pursuit. They can listen to her husband telling the history of love calmly. I am surprised whether she loves Hu or not. Isn't she possessive of Hu? I am surprised whether she loves herself. Doesn't she know that Hu is slapping herself in the face by talking about the history of love like that? Although she can get a good salary, she is still unsure of her ability, mainly because of her perception of painting. The society has always believed that children with poor grades only take the artistic route. Many children also think that they are not good at it, so subconsciously they are not sure about art. However, in the process of having to continue, they will give face to their own behavior of learning art, which is commonly known as increasing self-cultivation and cultivating sentiments. Under the psychological suggestion of contradictory desires, some art students really tell themselves that they do not make a living through art, but only It is to show my artistic sentiment. I paint when I have spare time to show that I am an elegant person. In fact, how can I put it this way? This kind of self-advocacy can really make art realize dreams, because art requires deep accumulation and precipitation, but it takes too long. When many people succeed in art, they don't know it themselves and think they are still pretending. So Xu has achieved certain achievements. Hu is a person who is self-disciplined but has no other discipline. Those who can achieve certain achievements are definitely those who can discipline themselves, but they cannot withstand the gentle trap of a long time and a loose environment. Without the alienation from his parents, Hu's mother presented the image of not being a troublemaker, not living together, being knowledgeable and courteous, and also very humorous. She has always been the image of helping her daughter-in-law Xu. I don't know how many daughters-in-law envied her, but such a mother can't control her son. Don't say that when you grow up, I can't control you anymore. Right is right, and wrong is wrong, She The old lady is so old, but she can still beat her erring children with a stick. This is called the majesty of parents and the protection of family tradition. Hu's mother can only humorously tease Hu. The real problem has not been solved, making Hu more and more old. This is also the abnormal development of today's families. The education of love is only all-encompassing and loses the seriousness of education. There is no alienation from the wife, no participation in housework, no control over friends, no rules for traveling, no control over finances, and the purity of love cannot be demanded by the wife with confidence, not even the brother-in-law and brother-in-law, let alone the pressure from the woman. How can such a weak family bully him? There is no heteronomy from the child, the child does not want him, the child does not make demands for him, and there is no love without giving. The bond between the child and him is too little, and his sense of responsibility for the child is getting weaker and weaker. He does not care about the prospect of the child receiving a better education. He only cares about whether he can use his money to buy a house in the south. He does not care about the child's food, clothing, housing, and transportation. He only cares about his own food, drink, and fun. He does not care about whether there is a teacher who disrespects the child and makes it difficult for the child. He only cares about whether his dignity is challenged. As he mixes in the society, and is pursued by his friends, he will become more and more confused. He will be smooth-talking, act like a fool, and take his peace of mind for granted. As soon as he comes into being, he will feel aggrieved. It has always been like that. You he-laws just do what you say. Have you considered the baby's feelings?

After reading Chapter 10, I want them to divorce. I understand the helplessness of life, the heroine thinks a lot, and the author writes very realistically

At first I thought the writing was good, but the more I read, the more confused I became. What on earth did the author want to express? The male protagonist has obviously cheated on her mentally. Does she still have to catch him in bed? The heroine has the ability and ideas, but she still compromises everywhere. Is the form of marriage so important? Do you still want to write it as a prodigal son who can never change his fortune? I really don't see anything outstanding about this man that makes the heroine hesitate. If in reality, such a marriage would have broken up long ago, and if it continues like this, I will suspect that the author is just trying to make up the word count.

The heroine is 33 years old, her daughter is 6 years old, her husband is 43 years old, and her old lover is 45 years old. I feel that the heroine is the kind of traditional virtuous wife who is loyal to the end. She is capable but not confident. She is willing to play a sacrificial and dedicated role in marriage and family. Her family of origin cannot help and is a burden. I don't know what the heroine is pursuing in marriage. How come a full-time housewife who earns 20,000 yuan a month can't live without a man? She said it was for the sake of the children, and she still loved the man. However, the husband did not have to do housework and did not accompany his daughter after get off work. He casually invested 500,000 yuan rather than buy a house in the south to give his daughter a better education. He would rather lend money to his old lover to buy a villa than lend money to his wife's family to buy a house. Such a man, no matter how rich he is, can't spend anything on you, and still wants you to be a nanny and maid to take care of your daily life. Picture what?

It feels like Zhiqiu and Mai Tong are working together to deceive the male protagonist.

Until now, every time I read this novel, every updated chapter makes me feel depressed and extremely frustrated😒😒

Mr. Hu started to compare 😒😒😒 He really deserves a beating, he is used to it. Mr. Hu's first love is already this old, and he still dresses in white every day🙃🤨🤨He drinks alcohol and is a female man (′～`;) and wears white lotus clothes

I want to wait until I get divorced before watching, it's too frustrating

It's really frustrating to read. I don't even know what the author wants to write. Updates are so slow now.

It seems that they have reconciled again, but in fact the problems between the two are becoming more and more obvious, the knots in their hearts are getting bigger and bigger, and the hints of first love are becoming more and more obvious. This marriage only regretted a good mother-in-law and left behind a lovely daughter. The rest is hurt, and there will always be times when it explodes in my heart.

Oh, why should a man like Hu keep it for the New Year? (Beep quietly) Really, keep it for the New Year. 🙄

When will the divorce happen? I can't wait to see Hu go bankrupt.

After the new year, I looked to see if I had divorced, but it turned out that I still haven't divorced.

What's the point of having fun with him? An old man is arrogant, his face comes first, he is not involved with other people, and he does not discuss life with his wife or outsiders, then let him get out and live with outsiders. If he does not cherish what he has, then he does not deserve it.

It was heartbreaking to see. A man who clearly has money in his pocket refuses to buy a house in a big city. This is an investment for his daughter's education and an investment in his own real estate. He cannot lose money. One incident after another, the heroine seems to be in a state of oppression, won't she resist?

I don't like the heroine's character.

If you don't explode in silence, you will perish in silence. Scumbags are used to it 🤫

Xu Na, is it interesting to live with this person? A daughter will cry and fuss because her parents divorced, but she will also grow up. If you are not happy as a mother, how can you continue to support your marriage alone? She has to grow up, and she can't follow your old path and suffer the consequences of marrying someone like this in the future.

The author's portrayal is very delicate. He should have learned from some real details in life, otherwise the logic would not be so clear. The heroine's mother is weak from a psychological perspective, so she seems to be a good person. The logic of the heroine's family lifestyle has some shadows of her mother. Because he is developing well at work, he seems to be very procrastinating and indecisive in dealing with the family. This is also the author's great charm. Such a boring life can be described in detail, which is very good. There are very few words like this in the starting point... Marriage accelerates the growth of the other party. . It is necessary to bear the blame for self-dissatisfaction in the other party's growth, and it is also necessary to be projected on the so-called "bad" in self-development. Therefore, it is indeed difficult for both parties to grow simultaneously in such an environment. . .

It feels like watching a TV series, in order to show the great forbearance of Chinese women and their dedication to the family...

Eight horses? Are you the real one? Is this the end? Oh my gosh! Shall I make a big deal? Don't you think it's too perfunctory? Just use such an ending to confuse your readers? You are not a new writer, is it really okay to fool readers like this?

I have been reading the author's books, and I feel that this is the best one. However, it is also the least punctual one. It has been updated steadily, but I don't know why this one is. Unstable update to. . . Experience it for yourself, it will waste many of my previous votes.

Dear writer, your new book is very good. I have joined the new book investment group. Please update~

It was so real and heart-wrenching, I read it all without missing a word. Xu Na really loved Hu Xingwei enough and took Hu too seriously. After reading the comments from most compatriots, I feel much better. Our female compatriots are all rising.

I just want to know why it hasn't been updated for 18 years?

Please write about chasing your wife in the crematorium again. This ending is too uncomfortable.

This is the best novel I have ever read. It is depressing throughout, but this is life...