Loving and being loved are both human love needs. The tragedy is that the two are often misaligned. You fall in love with someone who does not love yourself, and the person who loves you is not loved by you. When people love, it is too easy to care about being loved and regard it as a right; when being loved, it is too easy to underestimate being loved and accept it as a matter of course. Kierkegaard said: "Responsible love can avoid despair and bring people permanent stability and happiness." It was night, I made a cup of coffee and sat at the desk. The dense heat and orange lights created a warm atmosphere. A Feng's letter is warm on the table.
