Don't think that falling in love with another person means finding a permanent place for love. Love is sometimes the most selfish and fragile emotion. Trying to prove and test love with mediocrity, boredom or even vulgarity brought about by laziness will always result in failure. Therefore, you must believe that there is eternal love, but you must use constant changes and updates to obtain it. Growth and change in marriage are the extension and sublimation of love. I have been thinking, if Prince Charles was just an ordinary man, would the 19-year-old Diana still marry him knowing that he loved someone else? In a public video of Diana, she once said about her wedding day: "My heart was as calm as death. I felt like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered."