On the wedding night, a woman packed her shoes early and waited for the man to take off his shoes and get on the kang. When the man took off his shoes, the woman stepped on the man's shoes. When the man saw this, he smiled and said, you are quite superstitious. But the woman said seriously that her mother said that if you step on a man's shoes, you will no longer be angry with men for the rest of your life. The man also said, and my mother also said that if a woman steps on a man's shoes, she will have to endure hardship and poverty with the man for the rest of her life.