Destined Origin, Dependent Cessation, and Ultimately Destiny

If everything is dependent, there is no way to escape the origin and destruction of conditions. Then I have followed the path I was supposed to take and suffered a lot from beginning to end. What makes me tangled is: Why have I been given so many opportunities to escape and free myself, but I have never been able to wake up and redeem myself? If everything is destined, then I can only accept it happily. However, the price of this is too high, so great that I still can't get over it, and I'm still heartbroken...