The Waning Moon Is Also Beautiful

I understand you, I care about you, I miss you, but I can't have you, I can only be your confidant Hate you, hate you, scold you, but can't leave you, can only live in the same room with you Love and hate intertwined, who lives for whom? Who sheds tears for whom? Who is haggard for whom? Love, marriage, responsibility and obligation, who comes first? When we fall in love, we don't know how cold the snow is in winter. When we miss each other, we are often accompanied by colorful clouds. We don't know what is the reason for our son Jin? Only then did he learn to play the flute and become an immortal. Is this the only way to resolve those many thoughts and thoughts? Don't know what's going on now? In today's social transformation, we really don't know how to run, maintain, healthy, civilized, happy and safe marriage and family? This is the reality today; love is a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for one large family. Old people, young people, and those concerned about face, money and energy all make the people involved shy away from certain feelings. They would rather stay in a place that is home but not like home, counting the days in loneliness, and they dare not and cannot really leave. I really don't know, where is the cohesion of modern marriage? Why so fragile? Children, money, house, car, love and marriage, what is it that will truly last a lifetime with you? For the sake of all those who love yourself and the people you love, stick to the life you have, not daring to do what you want to do or say what you want to say, and just let everything go. Because kind people will not let their children get hurt. In divorce, the children are most harmed, and the psychological trauma they suffer at this time is often difficult to heal for life. The hurt they suffered at this time will make their worries, insecurities, and fears forever difficult to heal. Love is indeed a matter between two people, but for the sake of children, one must maintain a disharmonious and unhappy marriage. This marriage is largely for the sake of children. Beautiful love and marriage will often be tempered by life, and the cruelty of reality will be worn away layer by layer. The hope and passion in the heart will also disappear in this kind of fuss, making people decadent and lifeless. At this time, love has been broken. Fortunately, there is another scenery in life, just like the waning moon, the waning moon is like a bow and the new moon is like an eyebrow, which is equally fascinating. The waning moon is hazy, demure, serene, gentle and generous, just like the "Moon Night" written by the Tang Dynasty poet Liu Fangping; "The moonlight is darker half the house, and the North Dipper is slanting in the south. Tonight, I know that the spring air is warm, and the sound of insects is new through the green window screen." I believe that winter will pass and everything will be fine.