Lost Marriage

This article mainly narrates the marriage loss and divorce stories of several couples in a small town who were the most ordinary post-70s people, that is, the love concepts and marriage stories of several young couples born between 1975 and 1979. It reflects several types of marriage loss in families in this era: For example, Qiu Feng's bohemian nature led to the breakdown of his relationship with his wife Bai Xue, who he once fell in love with at first sight. Bai Xue, who was in despair, under the warm care of his colleague Yang Chun, The relationship had to deviate, and the final choice of divorce was because he wanted to fulfill the relationship between Qiu Feng and Xia Yu, but also wanted to find a way out for his true love; Zhao Daming, who was addicted to drunken and out-of-control violent behavior due to the breakup of his first love, had to give up his deeply emotional marriage with him in despair for the personal safety of himself and his daughter; Qiao Lengzi, who had always had a bad temper, did not understand that women are The wanton domestic violence against his wife Xia Yu for pain caused Xia Yu to finally leave Qiao Lengzi and fall into the arms of his passionate colleague Qiu Feng; the patriarchal mentality of Yao Youhou's family led to Yao Youhou being protected by his parents , the practice of taking care of the mistress outside to give birth to a boy hurt his wife Liu Lei and was forced to divorce with hatred; Yang Chun and Shi Hui's utilitarian marriage without emotion made their married life like a pool of stagnant water. Finally, under Bai Xue's passive intervention In the end, Yang Chun's brother Yang Shu neglected to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband to his wife because of his work. As a result, the lonely wife had an affair with a colleague, and was accidentally caught and raped in bed by Yang Shu, causing the couple to part ways. Through the marriage loss of these young people, we can see through modern society, people's attitudes towards marriage, and three views on love that are worthy of our consideration. First, is it wrong to want to truly love someone? Second, is it wrong to love each other and fight for true love? Third, is it wrong to be loved? Is it wrong to passively get involved in other people's families? I want to ask: Is love itself wrong? This article just wants to remind people with families through the stories of these young couples who lost their marriages - why do so many people break up in life? Home is our gentle haven. How should we manage our marriage so as not to get lost?