Whoever Takes It Seriously First Loses

Love does not mean that we can be together once we fall in love, nor does it mean whoever takes it seriously first will lose. Perhaps in life and love, we are often helpless and feel unable to extricate ourselves. But if you want to pursue someone's heart, you have to find someone who is on the same wavelength as you, and then you can combine with them. You will not regret it in this life. Otherwise, life is rough enough, the pain of life, separation, death, and the trivial matters of life are really enough suffering, so why can't we live according to our hearts? Find something you like, something you can share the same goals with. Don't go by looks, really. To the naked eye, this kind of thing is all nothingness, which is so meaningless.