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[Chronology, daily life, daily necessities, daily necessities] The rural style of the 1970s, filled with firewood smoke and green grass, greatly affected Chen Chunfang. As the second eldest girl in the family, she took over the reins of herding cattle and the burden of housework before she finished junior high school. Her fingertips were calloused, but she hid her wisdom between her eyebrows. In the hard days, she could always find a little bit of warmth from the rough meals and the playfulness of her brothers and sisters. According to someone's introduction, she started a family with Zhao Lingfu, who had served in the military. In the days after their marriage, one end was connected to the practical needs of food, rice, oil and salt, while the other end was entangled with her mother-in-law's obsession with favoring sons over daughters. All three children were daughters. Rumors and gossip were like a fine net, trapping her in secular disciplines. She did not escape or sink, just like thousands of women of that era, silently shouldering responsibilities in the small world of the family. Chunfang's world is not big, filled with housework, children, and household chores, but she is able to create a unique warmth in this besieged city: it is her husband's clumsy thoughtfulness, her daughters' soft calls, the mutual help among neighbors, and her own softness and resilience that have not cooled down through the years. Women of that era may not have made earth-shattering counterattacks, but they spent their lives explaining that happiness is never about freedom after breaking free, but about being trapped in fireworks and still being able to hold on to the light in their hearts and turn the ordinary day after day into steaming warmth.