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But there is no eternal puzzle in life. As long as we recognize the nature of desire, seek strength within, and stick to our original intentions, we can break out of the chess game and get out of the predicament.

Many people think that love should be "vigorous" and "fresh every day", but in fact, true love is "sustainable heartbeat". It's about caring about each other in ordinary days; it's about resolving conflicts together; it's about two people being together and slowly becoming a better version of themselves. Don't regard love as a "task", and don't regard "novelty" as "love". Just like "being diligent and thrifty", we should make an "emotional budget" in love, cherish "shared memories", find heartbeat in the ordinary, and find tacit understanding in the running-in. Starting today, try to cook a meal with him, go for a walk, and chat together. Gradually you will find that the most touching thing about love is not the instant passion, but the long-lasting tenderness.

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