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The best-selling author of two million copies. After 6 years, Twelve uses a new perspective to tell you how to calmly face the troubles in love, marriage and family of origin. 43 New insights, more transparent and freer! We spend our lives not to please others, but to live our true selves. May all women not be afraid of the future and not dwell on the past. The first part directly advises women to affirm their own value - women will encounter lovelorn relationships in relationships between men and women. The focus is on men and family, coupled with the traditional disciplines of their parents, they often deny themselves. All this is just because they have lost their own value; the second part focuses on men and their interactions in family life, analyzing the nature of family life and the personality differences between men and women, emphasizing rational and restrained interactions, not overpaying, and not consuming yourself; the third part starts from personal growth and tells how women can coexist with age and experience in life, become more refined and calm women, and live the way they want.

Those who talk about the future are lying to others, and those who dwell on the past are lying to themselves. When I was a single girl, I heard older friends talk about the helplessness and misfortune of marriage, and I felt sad and afraid of marriage. When I got older, I heard my friends talk about the pain of childbirth and the hardships of raising children. I felt sad and afraid of being a mother. When you really sink into it, you find that they did not lie to you and what they said was true. However, you still walked over with one hand and one foot, and it was not that scary. Indeed, you have nothing to fear and no need to rush to understand everything. What life is destined to teach you, you will eventually understand. In the hardcover commemorative edition of "Don't be afraid of the future, don't dwell on the past", Twelve, as a new mother, embraces a more extended, deepened and broadened love. She is no longer just like an annoying friend who sometimes says the things you least like to hear, but more like a true best friend, using words as needles to pierce the pus and blood in your heart and let the toxins flow out; and then plant calmness in your heart so that you will no longer panic in this busy world.

Sighing at Weiqiao Road and saying goodbye to Chang'an City This is a story about the struggle of destiny in turbulent times

The companion volume of "Don't be afraid of the future and don't dwell on the past" adds 12 wonderful works, which can be read as storybooks on survival rules for urban women. A girl who has just graduated a few years ago suddenly has to deal with life. She shares a room with a partition, learns to install light bulbs and repair home appliances by herself, copes with unreasonable demands from customers at work, encounters the heartbeat of strangers, and starts an unknown love. Once it fails, she will be labeled as older... Is your life "at the end of the road"? Don't be stupid, you have just become sensible! Let the chic and independent writer Twelve tell you what values ​​you should really have. The confused stage of life is not scary. Good girls all stand on the shoulders of scumbags, confidently manage themselves as the most valuable brand, calmly identify who is the truly suitable partner for their lives, and then fall in love calmly. The proud and extraordinary you are not far away.