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Storyline structure Volume 1: The critical point of 30 years old - external pressure explodes - Around the 30th birthday, there are blind date bombings, marriage rushes, and classmate comparisons. - The heroine thinks seriously for the first time: Do I really not want to get married, or do I dare not get married? - The first boyfriend appears: he wants to get married, he is a nice guy, but the heroine resists instinctively Conflict points: I love you, but I don't want to marry you. Volume 2: Try "Only in love but not in marriage" - sweetness and panic coexist - Meet a compatible partner: agree not to get married, live together, and live as a couple - Sweet: freedom, relaxation, no pressure, companionship - Panic: Who will sign if you are sick? Whose name should I put in when buying a house? What to do when you get old? -Comparison of friends: Some people are happily married, some are painfully married, and some are anxious about being single. Core torture: Falling in love without getting married, is it an escape or is it true freedom? Volume 3: Reality hits hard - the price of not getting married is here - If a family member is seriously ill, the "family member" signature is required - When a friend got divorced, he advised her that "having a partner is better than having no partner at all." - Boyfriend is wavering: he wants children and stability - The heroine collapses late at night: Am I brave or selfish when I choose not to get married? This volume is the key to distinguishing all the cool articles on the Internet. Volume 4: Self-consistency-Reconciling with Oneself It's not about winning, it's not about being happy, it's about reconciliation. - Accept that you just don't want to get married - Accept that there are gains and losses in life - Accept that loneliness is normal and companionship is luck - Accept a life that is "not perfect, but belongs to me" Ending point: If I don't get married, I'm not fighting the world. I'm just choosing a way of life that suits me.