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Writer Shuimuding uses popular language and cases that fit the reality of the Chinese people to interpret the classic work "The Undiscovered Self" by Carl Jung, one of the great psychologists, in order to solve the real problems faced by contemporary Chinese young people, such as personal growth, interpersonal relationships, and cognition of society and the world. It provides us with a new perspective to understand ourselves, gain inner strength, and solve life dilemmas. To truly understand yourself, you must see that cognition and logical thinking are not the same thing. You must not only understand your own consciousness, but also pay attention to your own feelings and subconscious areas. You must realize the duality of good and evil in human nature. You must separate personal wishes from group concepts, peel off the illusion of yourself, and see the true self hidden deep in your heart. The individual is not only a member of society, but also a natural part of Taoism. A person who truly knows himself will be able to face the world without being humble or arrogant.

This is a gentle book, but also a powerful book. As the author said in the preface, "This book records the despair of life and the desire for life. It records how those movies that had a profound impact on me allowed me to see the beauty of life in the darkness of life." The author stands behind each movie character and says what they want to say and what she wants to say to the readers. In fact, she is discussing universal topics such as emotion, human nature, life and death. These interpretations are naturally combined with the author's personal life experience and emotional memories. Therefore, compared with the previous book "Fear and Love in Our Hearts", this book has a more intense personal color, independent style and profound thinking. The overall feeling presented to readers in this book is "gentleness": treat yourself gently and treat others gently. And such a kind of gentleness is the result of tolerance, faith, persistence and courage.

This book describes how the heroine and her friends gradually grow from a handsome young man in white to an unrecognizable middle-aged man. They changed their lives, they sincerely gave their feelings, and they worked hard to change themselves for their lives. Shuimuding skillfully grasps the narrative details and rhythm, and the plot is twists and turns, with the texture of life. Among them are reflections on the meaning of women's own existence, insights into the nature of love and life, and reflections on women's own dilemmas and social dilemmas. It also reflects the author's ambition beyond telling a beautiful and twisty story.

"Fear and Love in Our Hearts" is a collection of emotional letters by Shuimuding. The latest updated version was released in 2017, adding 50,000 words of new content. There are a total of 42 letters in the book, which respectively explore personal growth, interpersonal relationships (including gender, friends, family, etc.), As well as the understanding of society and the world. It clearly explains the "fear and love" of modern people and their solutions. I believe everyone can see their own reflection in these 42 letters. Shuimuding has a warm heart and a pair of calm eyes. Her replies are insightful, clear, practical, and full of wisdom and warmth. She stays with you like a friend, sharing how to live gently in this cold and rough world.

A companion piece to popular writer Shuimuding's best-selling essay collection "Only I Wish You Were Treated Tenderly by the World" - discussing how to pursue true freedom and love in a cruel and noisy world from three perspectives: emotion, life, and reading. The book contains more than fifty essays on emotions, life and reading. Continuing the style of "I wish you were treated tenderly by this world", the author triggers discussions about life, growth and freedom from real life, emotional experience, reading and thinking. Each article shines with the brilliance of intelligence, recording the process of an author who coexists with reason and emotion, bidding farewell to the fragility and sadness of youth, and reaching maturity and warmth. And all of these point to the answer to a common question: how to pursue true freedom and love in this cruel and noisy world.