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The "loving family" that has been at the top of the list for five years hides her half-life's grievances and internal strife, as well as the most hurtful shackles of her original family. As the eldest daughter in her family, she grew up in an environment that favored boys over girls, and was engraved in her bones by the moral abduction of "blood is thicker than water." From dropping out of school to work to support her younger brother's studies and saving up the bride price, to still being asked by her natal family in turn after she married away - her younger brother's garage, her sister-in-law's supplements, her parents' "parenting fees", every sentence "You are my sister" is a heavy burden on her. She tried her best to please her mother-in-law, but what she got in return was excessive greed and endless internal strife. Until the critical point of collapse, she pressed "block" on her fingertips, saying goodbye to her natal family who consumed her, and also saying goodbye to herself who blindly compromised. This is not a book that accuses family love, but a journey of awakening and self-rescue. The 80 chapters describe her struggle and growth in detail, hiding the shadow of countless girls who were consumed by their original families. I hope every reader can find the courage to break free from the shackles, learn to stop losses in time, love yourself first, and live as your own master.

When I reached middle age, I spent half my life trying to please everyone. The patriarchal family treated me like a cash machine, constantly squeezing me like a bottomless pit; My cold and selfish husband treats me as a free nanny, takes everything for granted and consumes me wantonly. I spent my whole life compromising for my mother's family, forbearing for my marriage, frugally and frugally, and was exhausted. What you get in return is only extravagance and calculation. A serious illness made me completely sober. I cruelly blocked my vampire relatives and cut off the bad relationship that had been entangled for many years. I look down on the hopeless marriage and stay away from all the people and things that consume me. No more accommodating people who are ungrateful, no more paying for other people's lives. For the rest of my life, don't talk about debts or ask about right and wrong. Make money well, live well, maintain good health, Be kind to yourself who has worked hard for most of your life. From now on, you can be pure and comfortable, please yourself, and be safe and worry-free for the rest of your life.