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Far away from their motherland and relatives, Chinese students face a completely unfamiliar world. They feel drifting and insecure. The pressure of study and emotional loneliness force them to seek comfort and support from each other. What emotional choices will they face? What kind of test does their marriage and love face? Let us follow the author's writing and enter the mysterious and rich emotional world of Chinese students studying in the United States on the other side of the ocean. That year, when I was visiting my children studying in the United States, I attended a gathering organized by Chinese students studying in the United States. There were seven pairs of international students participating in this event, five of them were married, and two pairs were not married, but their relationship was already fixed, and they were just waiting for the right time and auspicious time to become a formality. Most of them are studying in this city, and there are also students from other cities, temporarily living in two places.

As a parent of international students, the author Meng Jiucheng conducted detailed interviews with more than a dozen students studying in the United States, describing their hard work and growth process in China, as well as their study, work and life in the United States. There is also a special chapter detailing their marriage and love life. The valuable thing about this book is that it truly reflects their living conditions in the United States and shows a "three-dimensional image." It also touches on some hot issues of domestic concern: such as the process of studying in the United States, children's education, how to choose a career, signs of success, talent evaluation, and the academic system of American universities. Another theme of "My Favorite Xiao Cai's Laughter" is the story about the adoption of Chinese orphans by American families. It tells the story of the adoption of Chinese orphans by American families from a macro perspective, the adoption process, and the upbringing experience. It tells a touching and nuanced story that happened in this kind of transnational family and is unheard of by Chinese people. It is deeply shocking.

As a parent of international students, the author conducted detailed interviews with more than a dozen international students, describing their hard-working growth process in China, as well as their study, work and life in the United States. He also gave a special detailed account of their marriage and love life, which truly reflected their living conditions in the United States and presented a "three-dimensional image." Wang Feng's parents work in state-owned enterprises. The year she graduated from elementary school, Wuhan abolished the entrance examination system and replaced it with direct admission to a junior high school nearby. However, educational resources are limited, and parents still focus on those key middle schools. The original intention of canceling the entrance examination is undoubtedly good. The purpose is to reduce the academic burden of children. However, the result will not dilute competition at all. It just changes the method and transfers competition from children to families. The pressure on parents suddenly increases and they become more helpless. For example, parents will take their children to participate in various art classes and sports classes, because various certificates will increase their children's weight in entering key middle schools.