Xu Ning, a senior product manager of a large factory-glossy, dignified, and impeccable.
Ever since she was little, she has been "someone else's child". She knows how to behave, knows how to smile, and never loses control. No one knows that behind this is the result of being suppressed emotions and being asked to be sensible again and again.
In a three-year relationship, her boyfriend Gu Chen - an associate professor at a well-known university - is gentle and gentle, but he uses "rationality" to wrap up his cold manipulation.
"You're too sensitive."
"I'm doing this for your own good."
His tone was never intense, but he tightened her breath step by step - the circle of friends should be modified, the clothes should be modest, and even the PPT for the promotion defense, he took it upon himself to "help her revise", making her fall over in public. Finally, he said gently: "That's good. You can focus on your family from now on."
At that moment, Xu Ning felt for the first time that gentleness could also be suffocating.
She fled to another city and stayed with a friend for a month.
At an illustration event, she met Jiang Wang, a man who did not judge or guide, but only asked: "What about you? What do you really feel?"
He was not in a hurry to save her, but caught her emotions in every detail.
With him, Xu Ning realized that love does not shape you, but allows you to be yourself.
A month later, in the evening breeze at the beach, he handed her a picture album - it was the way she looked when she drew for the first time, with the words next to it:
"You don't need to be better. As long as you are you, you are already good."
Purpose: Through a seemingly perfect love, it reveals the more secret emotional manipulation in life, focusing on how urban women can get out of the emotional maze of being "educated" and "suppressed by reason", regain themselves, rebuild the boundaries of love, and convey the core concept of "emotions are rights, and relationships need to be equal."