For him, she was injured, poisoned, detoxified, pregnant and gave birth to a child. Because of his death, she forgot everything about him, including the child, and did not remember everything about him until she accidentally saw the DV.
For her, he wanted to wash his hands in a golden basin and retire from the world. He was still thinking of her before he died. In order to see her one last time, he hid in the sword. After reincarnation, he forgot everything, but the moment he saw him, he knew that she was the one he was waiting for!