It tells the story of two people with completely different personalities, Lu Chuan and Jiang Tong, falling in love and killing each other in modern urban life. The "irreversible" nature of this damage stems from the underlying reason why both parties were initially attracted to each other - Jiang Tong was infatuated with Lu Chuan's freedom to break the boundaries of thinking, and Lu Chuan longed for Jiang Tong's emotional depth. When these qualities turn negative, they become the sharpest weapons. True repair lies not in going back to the past, but in co-creating new relationship paradigms where the scars themselves become the unique texture that connects each other. In the end, the best love is: the wind loves the tree, and the tree enjoys the wind - the symbiosis of freedom and depth.
Purpose: This is my memoir. Personality differences can cause profound friction in romantic relationships, especially when both parties are unaware of fundamental differences in each other's emotional needs and behavioral patterns. I hope you can find a way to get along with the person you love, and move from mutual torture to soul resonance.