The dead have gone, but the words remain. All I can do is to restore her to a living and complex person, so that she is not just a "dead person" in the narrative, but the person I really knew and deeply owed.
The relationship between Tu Min and Qi Mingli is destined to be a mismatch of joys and sorrows. Tsai Mingli was born into a happy and open-minded family, and her parents unconditionally supported her choices and growth. No matter where she is, her family is always her strongest support, which gives her the confidence and courage to face the future. She can pursue the life she wants, dare to love, and dare to fight.
Tu Min, however, grew up in a traditional and financially strapped family, as if he was stuck in a bottomless quagmire. The quagmire not only trapped her actions, but also corroded her will and courage. The constraints and expectations of her family were like thick chains, entangled around her, making it impossible for her to break free. It was hard to believe that there would be someone who could consistently protect her, support her, and pull her out of the darkness.
Her love can be vigorous and short-lived, even if it is a desperate impulse, but in the end she does not have enough confidence to believe that there will be another person who will unswervingly accompany her for the rest of her life.
The heavy family, like a pair of invisible hands, dragged her into the quagmire while giving her a weak lift from time to time - allowing her to occasionally catch a glimpse of the sun and hold on to a wavering hope.
But reality is cruel and ruthless after all, making her recognize the unreachable dream again and again. Such repeated struggles and disappointments made the genius surrender to mediocrity and become an ordinary but crazy woman.
Therefore, Tu Min chose to let go. That doesn't mean that you don't love, but that you understand that you are unable to escape the deep family constraints, nor can you bear greater pressure. Her letting go was her own liberation and the deepest fulfillment of Tsai Mingli.
Demining: There is one bl in the branch line, and the rest are gl
Intention: Cherish the moment and break out of the cocoon