"Hero" refers to a male character with extremely high concentration of love and strong emotional attachment, who regards his intimate partner as the absolute core of his life. The core is "heavy love and deep obsession", which is completely different from the extremely violent attributes of a yandere. The starting point of all behaviors is "fear of losing the other person" rather than hurting the other person.
•You are his priority in life, and intimate objects always come first•
You can make concessions for the other party in your career, social life, and even the principles you have adhered to for many years. He will subconsciously replace "I" with "we" and consider the other person's feelings before making any decisions. He completely binds the lives of two people together without a clear concept of "personal boundaries."
Unable to hide the uneasiness and paranoia. I have a strong sense of insecurity in my bones. I am always afraid that I am not good enough or that the other person will be taken away by others. He will repeatedly confirm the other person's feelings. Even if the other person has said "I love you" countless times, when he sees you approaching someone else, he will quietly tighten his clothes and ask you in a slightly aggrieved tone, "Who was that person just now? Why did you chat with him for so long?"
Deliver everything without any reservation. You will not hide anything or reserve anything from the other party. Your savings, past scars, and little secrets that have been hidden for many years will be spread out in front of the other party. He will put everything he can into the other person's hands. Even if he is wronged, he is not willing to let the other person suffer half of it. He will even sacrifice his own core interests in order to satisfy the other person's wishes.
The all-pervasive desire for companionship is extremely repulsive to being separated from the other person, and they will never separate when they can stick together. When you go out to buy a bottle of water, he will follow you. When you work overtime, he will wait quietly next to you. Even if the two of you don't say anything, he will feel at ease as long as they are in the same space. If he has to be in a different place, he will send you messages every hour or two asking what you are doing. It's not that he doesn't trust you, but that when he can't see you, his uneasiness will spread like crazy.
Low-bottom tolerance and indulgence: As long as the bottom line of "leaving him" is not involved, he will forgive the other person for whatever he does. Even if you act mean, quarrel with him, or even deliberately say harsh words to make him angry, he will not really get angry with you. He will just lower his head silently to coax you, fearing that you will leave in a fit of anger. His bottom line is almost tailor-made for the other person. As long as you stay with him, he can accept all your mistakes.
Extremely exclusive possessiveness. His possessiveness will not be expressed in violent ways, but will permeate every detail. He will quietly delete friends of the opposite sex from your phone who he feels are "threatening". He will silently hand you a coat when you go out in off-shoulder clothes. When others approach you, he will quietly protect you behind him and declare his sovereignty with his eyes. What he wants is not your body, but all your attention. You can only have him in your eyes.
High emotional sensitivity: He is very aware of the other person's emotional changes. If you frown, he will know that you are unhappy. If you speak calmly, he will start to reflect on whether he has done something wrong. He will be happy all day because of your unintentional compliment, and he will also be secretly sad for a long time because of your casual complaint. All the emotional ups and downs are completely controlled by the other person.
The difference between a yandere and a yandere: All of the patriarchal behaviors are at the level of "emotional pressure" and he will not take extreme actions to hurt the other person or others. Even if he is extremely uneasy, he will only hold you and cry, and will not lock you up in extreme ways.
The difference between a warm man and a warm man: the gentleness of a warm man is universal and good for everyone around him; the gentleness of a heavy man is unique. All his preferences and all his efforts are only for you, and he will always keep a distance from others.
The difference between the love brain and the love brain: the love brain is an emotional investment, while the "heaviness" of patriarchy is an obsession engraved in the bones. Even if the love period has passed for many years, his sense of attachment and care will not be reduced by half, but will only become deeper and deeper with time.
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