One summer, Shen Zhiwei came across an open space, which she expected to be filled with her favorite roses.
That year, Liang He happened to see this open space, and he also wanted to plant geraniums. Shen Zhiwei loved Liang He very much at that time, so she pulled out the roses and planted geraniums. When the flowers bloomed, Shen Zhiwei was allergic.
Shen Zhiwei finally understood that love and suitability were two different things. She loved roses and geraniums, but geraniums would make her allergic, just like Liang He would make her unhappy.
But later Shen Zhiwei discovered that it was never the geranium itself that made her allergic, but the dust mites. It was not only Liang He who made her unhappy, but also the unpredictable future between them.
Concept: Growth is about gradually seeing one's own outline through thousands of collisions with the world.