The wedding invitations were sent out, but the groom came back from a business trip and said he was no longer married. After more than ten years in the company, he was inexplicably involved in a corruption case. He lost his job and still owed the company a lot of debt. The mortgage loan and the decoration loan all added up to a mountain of debt. The age of 36 seems to be a hurdle. Problems hit me all at once, catching me off guard. When I was young and frivolous, I didn't know the heights of the world. I was so arrogant that I could start over at any time. The wind flashed my tongue, and I found that the foundation of my life laid for more than thirty years was vulnerable. The whole body was affected by a single move. I had no backing. The only one I could rely on seemed to be unreliable. I was alone in my own world for a long time, giving up on myself, licking my wounds and embracing myself.
Is it really an iron rule to care about one thing and not the other when it comes to marriage, childbirth, and oneself? Can't you choose both? Women are not supermen. It is not easy for modern women. If there is no one to achieve perfection in life, they can only sigh with despair, helplessness, regret and self-hypnosis. This is the normal state of life. Is life a complete success?
At 36 years old, are you still chasing your dreams? So what if you become famous? Are you still talking about changes at the age of 36? For whom, what are you trying to do? After all, I am 36. Do you still trust people and your lover at the age of 36? After all, I have seen a lot of naked human nature. After all, I have personally experienced that interpersonal relationships are nothing more than interests.
Conflicts, entanglements, struggles, hesitation, loneliness... Won't it be painful if you don't think about it? Can we live in peace if we live in peace?
Intention: Don't be afraid, see yourself when you see others.